first bar experiance

[Avery.u2205]

As scary as your night was, just reading about it from a safe place even, the small (not nearly enough to make up for anything) thing was the other girls who seemed (?) to be supportive. I think they might be the slightly better group to be with then those guys. I've no experience woth the bar scene though. Please look out for yourself.

[Allyda]

Angelique,
    You need to scale this type of thing back to zero for awhile. I worry about your safety. I don't understand how you can let this ->-bleeped-<- call you '->-bleeped-<-', the most despicable name we can be called, and then let him put and keep his hand on your thigh because you didn't want to hurt his feelings. This guy asked you to suck him off, and the fact that you went for a walk with him is an invitation to a beating. I don't know how much experience you've had with guys, and especially guys in bars, but there are lots of mean, spiteful men out there waiting to prey on pretty young women, and once alcohol comes into the mix, you can get beaten, raped or even murdered, Angelique. I know there are other women thinking the same thing, and when thinking about your past problems with guys, you need to step back from this a little, at least until you really get to know men better. There are millions of good men out there, but a bar isn't usually where you're going to find them. In my experience, most of the guys who hang out at a bar are usually the most redneck, reactionary idiots who hate women, period, and us, even worse. Angelique, you need to be very careful out there. This can be a very cruel and frightening place for us, but also a wonderful and beautiful one. Just be careful.                                                                                                   

I agree with Miranda on this 100%. These are very dangerous situations your putting yourself in. I actually had to sell a very nice piece of property I had in a state up north for I was in fear of my safety. The guys there drank a lot and were the redneck type and were about 20 years behind the times in they're way of thinking. And I don't go to bars. Every time I went into town I was putting myself in danger. I'm tiny and more than a few times if it weren't for my concealed carry permit I may not be here now. I just hope that in the future you'll be more careful.

[Alainaluvsu]

Y'all, for everybody worried about Angelique, she will probably be OK. The North Shore is an area in south Louisiana that makes up the northern land area of Lake Ponchartrain. It is the most conservative, richest part of Louisiana. St. Tammany parish (Where Covington is) is full of conservatives who look down their noses at anybody different, which is mind boggling since one of the most diverse culture centers in the world is just about 30 miles away.

Angelique strikes me as the kind of girl who is really rather comfortable with being in the rich, "clean" environment (like the North shore), but wants to live on the edge because her parents kind of shield her from the type of riff raff that the south shore has. She will probably go down to Bourbon Street, see the drunken retarded tourists and how the self centered drag queens / transsexuals in the fruit loop act (or where ever they feel like gathering at that time), and over time, learn how to bounce out of that behavior and compose herself more safely.

Also, if she really wants / needs help, I'm just a couple parishes away. I live about 10 minutes from the quarter and don't mind giving some face to face coaching or help or whatever.

[Tori]

Was wondering where you were.

This drama though...

Ya' know?

[Chloevixen]

I keep a large sail boat in Bayou Liberty, in St Tammanay.  If you are looking for a good safe bar to go to, hit up Billies Landing.
Yea its small, usually nothing more than a few of the gay locals gathering to have a drink.  It does get more crowded later at night but I leave before that happens.

When you go tell Rex that you know Capt Branan and the sail boat.  He will remember and take care of you. (make sure the more undesirables stay away)
Please have fun, but BE CAREFUL!!!!  Your young, pretty, and inexperienced predators know exactly what to say and how to get what they want from you. 
Go out with a couple of friends. 
Never leave with a man you havent known for more than one night.  Never drink a drink that you let a stranger hold (I have had the worst case on this one thankfully a friend saved me after I drank it) Learn to listen to your intuition if something feels wrong IT IS!!! 
Never mix dark and clear liquors. 
Ohh and most importantly drink plenty of water, at least one bottle per drink.  Hangovers are a lousy way to start a fresh day.
I have tons of advice about bars seeing as I have been drinking in them world wide since I was 18.  You need to learn on your own just be safe.
Have fun and get alot of dancing in.
Chloe

[Hideyoshi]

if that's what goes on in bars, I kinda never want to go to one >.<

[Alainaluvsu]

if that's what goes on in bars, I kinda never want to go to one >.<

I've been going to bars for 10 years and that's not what I have experienced, ever. But of course, I have never gone to one alone, either.