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Started by Cindy, April 21, 2014, 03:23:53 AM

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Cindy

I was invited to give a seminar last week and I turned up, some people know me from my pretend days, some didn't have a clue who I am.

I gave my talk and it went well.

Then when people were leaving a woman came up and I recognised her as a person I employed some 15 years ago. She said, 'Oh, I see you are fully female now, you look great' then said something that rocked me 'The sadness that was always in your eyes has gone'

Just thought I would share.
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Jenny07

A very nice comment Cindy. I hope it made your day.

I so know those sad eyes :(
One step forward, onestep back and constantly twirling.
Getting very dizzy.
So long and thanks for all the fish
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Cindy

Quote from: Jenny07 on April 21, 2014, 03:49:40 AM
A very nice comment Cindy. I hope it made your day.

I so know those sad eyes :(
One step forward, onestep back and constantly twirling.
Getting very dizzy.

One day Sis, just remember this is no race and your sisters are ready to help at any time.
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Ms Grace

Always great to get that kind of feedback! :D
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Christinetobe

I bet that really made your day.  I ran in to an old boss the other day and she told me I must like my new job as I was much more at ease.  I didn't have the courage to tell her that I have accepted myself and begun to at least allow small parts be expressed to the world. 
As Brett Michaels said Every Night Has its Dawn :)
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Cindy

Quote from: Christinetobe on April 21, 2014, 04:00:05 AM
I bet that really made your day.  I ran in to an old boss the other day and she told me I must like my new job as I was much more at ease.  I didn't have the courage to tell her that I have accepted myself and begun to at least allow small parts be expressed to the world.

I'm constantly amazed how much we thought we hid, and failed to do so.
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kelly_aus

Quote from: Cindy on April 21, 2014, 04:01:57 AM
I'm constantly amazed how much we thought we hid, and failed to do so.

I went to my 20yr HS reunion last November.. Apart from everyone accepting me, the general consensus was, 'What took you so long?'
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BlonT

Glad for you Cindy ,Prove that having peace with yourself and acting to it make you happier.
I know,doubt is wrecking my mind some times.
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Kade1985

Quote from: Cindy on April 21, 2014, 03:51:18 AM
One day Sis, just remember this is no race and your sisters are ready to help at any time.

So is Brother! <3

Also, that's great Cindy, so happy for you. I've had a lot of similar comments like that in recent weeks. Like a lot of people I've met at college has been all like, "Kade, dude, you're the happiest I've ever seen you since we met." It always makes my day
www.youtube.com/kadeforester <--- my weekly vlog for my transition
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Jill F

That's awesome, Cindy!  Happiness is a wonderful thing.

I have heard similar things myself.  I see old pics of me (very few exist, and that was intentional) and see the same dour expression and dead eyes in almost every one.
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Rachel

Cindy, that was very sweet. I bet that felt so good!
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Nero

Wow, that is really powerful hon! I didn't know you before, but she's right. You always look very happy now.  :)
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