You'd be best off suited with a pack&play, though be careful about packing with hard packers as they can easily give off the look and feel of an erection (for obvious reasons). Another suggestion that could suit you is seeking to invest in a Peecock, as it has triple features (packing, STPing, playing). It's made of silicone and is pretty soft when packing, and has a funnel inside for peeing. The nice thing about it is that once you have a need to use it in the bedroom, there's no need to switch to a strap-on or the like, you can just pop in the flex rod without wasting any valuable time. I haven't used it, but what I've seen from reviews is that people like that feature and I can see why it's convenient.
