Sorry for all the posts, but a lot has been happening. I just got my driver's licence changed--new name, 'F' on the gender marker. The photo leaves volumes to be desired, but for that 'F,' I'll take almost anything. I also changed my name on my bank account. Because my father has access to it and neither parent knows I changed my name, and both are distraught at my transition, this will cause a serious clash soon. I'm worried about this. But living in the realest reality is more important for me, even as there is no way forward for me free of loss. Perhaps that is another good thing--me finally being able to accept that.
