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Started by Jessica Merriman, April 25, 2014, 04:53:01 PM

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luna nyan

Jessica,

So sorry to hear about what's happened to you.  It's really unfortunate your old endo didn't refer you onwards and at least provide you with a script for sufficient meds till you got in with a new one - I can't speculate as to why he might have done so.  There are the obvious alternatives for the short term, but I'm not going to break TOS of this forum.

Quote from: Jill F on April 25, 2014, 05:27:51 PM
Sometimes even the mention of a potential malpractice lawsuit can grease the wheels.  Just sayin'
Unfortunately, if you're talking about suing the new endo, you're out of luck.  They can quite just as easily refuse to treat, stating that your condition is out of their area of expertise, especially if there is a dearth of endos with trans experience, as Jessica is implying.  Waving the stick at the old one might not get you anywhere either as often, retired doctors may drop their registration to practice and indemnity insurance.

Although for us, missing HRT seems like life and death, for a practising MD, unless you're going to immediately die, they're not going to consider it as such.  Hang in there, it's another road bump. :(
Drifting down the river of life...
My 4+ years non-transitioning HRT experience
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Jessica Merriman

Yes I agree. He is closing his practice and everything. Oh well, I have gotten some good info from you girls, thanks. :)
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Veronica M

Aww... Jessica I am so sorry to hear this... That really blows chunks to say the least... I kind of have to agree with Jill on this one... Perhaps call the Transgender Law center and see what they have to say.

Hugs
Veronica
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Allyda

Hi Jess, I sent you some help via email. It should keep you from having to go through withdrawal. I too sympathsize and will do anything I can to help. It's very very sad trans issues aren't considered urgent where you live. Hopefully soon something will work out to prevent your doing without your meds.

Though I've found a great Endo who stands up for his TG patients, I keep a six months supply of my hrt meds I'd luckily ordered before I found my Endo and was still DIY on hand for just such an emergency. You never know sometimes what can happen. Your Endo could get in an accident on his/her way to work. I do the same with my pain meds which, has prevented my going through that withdrawal twice now.

Threatning malpractice lawsuit may get someone's attention, and, LTL's suggestion might be worth a look at as a last resort if all else fails. Hopefully it won't come to that though. Good luck Jess whichever avenue you choose.

Ally :icon_flower:
Allyda
Full Time August 2009
HRT Dec 27 2013
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Ltl89

Just wanted to write an additional FYI, most informed clinics take time to get in.  Please consider making an appointment asap if you are running out of medication quickly.  You will likely be able to skip the initial steps that others take since you are on medication (I don't know, it's up to the practice's policies with new patients)  but you never know.  If you can, get blood work done a head of time.  Just call your GP and get a BW Script and then head over to a local lab.  Then ask your GP for the copy of your results and bring them with you.  I wish there was an easier way, but this sounds like the quickest legal way you can go about it. 

Honestly, I'm saying this because I care, but given the level of depression you felt beforehand, I'd really avoid the withdrawls.  The emotional component of those withdrawls should be your biggest concern (which I can verify is a very tough thing to go through with other medications).  If you have to ween yourself off it for some time, consider speaking with your gp to get emotional treatment in the meantime.  I know I would go crazy if someone took my hormones, lol.  In any case, I hope it goes well. 

P.S.  Thanks Grace, though I'm no star.  Maybe a supernova or a black hole, lol. 
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Ltl89

Hey Jess,

I saw that you were on, so I was wondering if there is any update.  Hoping all is well, and let us know if we can help in any way.
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Jessica Merriman

Nothing yet. Therapy day is tomorrow so I will find out if they know anything new. There are angels watching over me though! ;)
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MadeleineG

This page has links to a number of Informed Consent clinics in the Dallas area, in case the metroplex is a shorter drive than Wichita.

http://parkthatcar.net/transgender-resources/informed-consent-clinics/

Best of luck, sis.
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Veronica M

Quote from: Jessica Merriman on April 25, 2014, 06:03:50 PM
Thanks LTL I will check them out. It is only about a 6 hour drive and sounds good to me. ROADTRIP! ;D

Thanks IG. I do have a firm date of July 9th now, so a little less than three months and I am trying to stretch out my small supply so there is at least some in me. I will run out soon though. Wish he would have told me this when I had a months worth!

I am so sorry you are going through this Jessica, but the road trip sounds like fun... ;D The joys of living in a backwards state... Arggg... Hope you get it squared away Sis.  :icon_hug:
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justpat

     The angel has smiled upon you.
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Jessica Merriman

Thanks for the support everyone. I have a fear of withdrawal of any drug after my past experience. While I was a Firefighter I had a career ending spinal fracture and was in bed for a couple of years. The doctors had me on a very large dose of Morphine and detoxing from it was a nightmare. I never want to go through anything like that ever again. That is why I was so worried about HRT withdrawal symptoms. Being fairly new to it I had no idea what it would be like to be off so suddenly. I appreciate everyone's kindness and concern. Your advice has been very helpful and has given me new areas to explore for a provider. Thanks! :) :icon_hug: :-*
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Allyda

Quote from: Jessica Merriman on April 28, 2014, 08:22:04 AM
Nothing yet. Therapy day is tomorrow so I will find out if they know anything new. There are angels watching over me though! ;)
Best of luck for good news from your therapist Jess. My gosh, I myself take morphene daily for chronic pain issues and I've experienced withdrawal symptoms once when every pharmacy in my area was out of my doseage. I ended up being hospitalized so I sympathize with you concerning the morphene withdrawal. Just thinking about going through that makes me cringe. :icon_yikes:
Allyda
Full Time August 2009
HRT Dec 27 2013
VFS [ ? ]
FFS [ ? ]
SRS Spring 2015



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Ltl89

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Quote from: Jessica Merriman on April 28, 2014, 09:42:41 AM
Thanks for the support everyone. I have a fear of withdrawal of any drug after my past experience. While I was a Firefighter I had a career ending spinal fracture and was in bed for a couple of years. The doctors had me on a very large dose of Morphine and detoxing from it was a nightmare. I never want to go through anything like that ever again. That is why I was so worried about HRT withdrawal symptoms. Being fairly new to it I had no idea what it would be like to be off so suddenly. I appreciate everyone's kindness and concern. Your advice has been very helpful and has given me new areas to explore for a provider. Thanks! :) :icon_hug: :-*

Well, if it makes you feel better, I doubt anything is nearly as bad as morphine withdrawl.  They say opiate withdrawls are the worst, and as someone that used to have a problem with them I can attest to that.  I doubt estrogen will be anything close to it, though I hope you find a way to avoid it coming off of it. 
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Allyda

Quote from: learningtolive on April 28, 2014, 10:47:56 AM
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Well, if it makes you feel better, I doubt anything is nearly as bad as morphine withdrawl.  They say opiate withdrawls are the worst, and as someone that used to have a problem with them I can attest to that.  I doubt estrogen will be anything close to it, though I hope you find a way to avoid it coming off of it.
Oh if I know Jess LTL I'm sure she will. You have been a great support to her on this thread. I just wanted to compliment you on your confidence in helping out our friend.

Ally
Allyda
Full Time August 2009
HRT Dec 27 2013
VFS [ ? ]
FFS [ ? ]
SRS Spring 2015



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Jessica Merriman

LTL calmed me down a lot! Now if only I can give her a dose of my confidence. ;) We will get there, won't we LTL? :)
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Allyda

Quote from: Jessica Merriman on April 28, 2014, 11:12:40 AM
LTL calmed me down a lot! Now if only I can give her a dose of my confidence. ;) We will get there, won't we LTL? :)
I agree Jess with a little confidence LTL will look fabulous, and many of her worries will melt away.
Allyda
Full Time August 2009
HRT Dec 27 2013
VFS [ ? ]
FFS [ ? ]
SRS Spring 2015



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