Seattle has several trans support meetings and during Gay Pride week there is a Trans Pride March. In addition in three weeks there is Esprit, where we take over a major hotel for a week, have girl 101 classes, fellowship and dance the night away. For me the meetings are a mixed bag, there can be a lot of negativity and unlike the web you can't really avoid it and still participate. This will be my first trip to Esprit, but the Trans Pride march two years ago was the first time I did anything as Julie, and the first time I felt gender accepted ever.
Before the world wide web I was alone, isolated, unsure and afraid. Until not that long ago I could not admit to anyone, much less myself that I was gender queer much less trans. So yes, there is community here (Seattle) and while supportive it isn't demanding or suffocating. All of you at Susan's are here for me 7/24, when I can't sleep at three in the morning till I fall into bed at night. I feel a part of, sometimes helpful, and always accepted even though I am old, even though I am unsure. It that sense this is closely knit and totally available. That we rarely or never see other, and I can only psychically give you a hug or celebrate your achievements is something I miss. But I wouldn't trade my here and now for all my yesterdays.
