How often do you set off the gaydar?

[antonia]

Out of curiosity as a lesbian trans girl, how often do you trigger the gaydar, just about every gay friend I have misinterpreted the the signal that I wasn't transmitting, welleee anhh as far as I know, so how many of you girls seem too to have to many gay friends that just want to pull you hair out vs .....

[Umiko]

ah man, tell me about it. its gaydar central for me. i try to act normal out in public but my fem side takes over and i get eyes from the my gay school mates. even my mother says "its ok if your gay, i'll still love you." its kinda gets annoying lol

[immortal gypsy]

The last bar I worked in I presented as a guy there. I would say about 80-90% of the staff and patrons thought I was a gay male.  Only one drinker knew I was transitioning

[Umiko]

well, my issue is i set of the gaydar alarm without even doing anything. i'm wondering if i'm just a gay magnet or something becuz everywhere i go, i always run into at least 3 gay dudes. i mean like i love hanging with gay men cuz they fun as hell but damn why do i gotta set of their alarms

[Alyssa Rae]

I can't seem to get away from it.  Ever since middle school I've had gay guys after me.  I never acted feminine or flamboyant by any stretch, but they've always seemed to flock to me.  Some are particularly bad, like almost stalker bad.

[ZoeM]

I never had issues. Then again, I was never in a place where I would expect to run into gay guys... (Conservative home, church, homeschool, Christian college).

That and I don't go out all that much. Never to bars and things.

[Umiko]

I can't seem to get away from it.  Ever since middle school I've had gay guys after me.  I never acted feminine or flamboyant by any stretch, but they've always seemed to flock to me.  Some are particularly bad, like almost stalker bad.

i feel your pain my friend. cant help that we are just awesome but i mean like damn, its ring the alarm central xD

[Alyssa Rae]

i feel your pain my friend. cant help that we are just awesome but i mean like damn, its ring the alarm central xD

ya, there's one after me now that "pitches a tent" every time I'm nearby.  Ughhhhhh!  Follows me everywhere!

[Umiko]

ya, there's one after me now that "pitches a tent" every time I'm nearby.  Ughhhhhh!  Follows me everywhere!

oh god, i'd been already yelled rape and called the stalker police

[Alyssa Rae]

oh god, i'd been already yelled rape and called the stalker police

most of the time, it's nowhere near that bad.  Just flirting with me and hitting on me, but this dude clearly can't control himself. 

[defective snowflake]

I've not set anyone's "gaydar" off that I'm aware of. I learned from an early age to fly under most peoples radars in general.

[Umiko]

I've not set anyone's "gaydar" off that I'm aware of. I learned from an early age to fly under most peoples radars in general.

lucky you. some of us just arent lucky xD no matter what i do, its gaydar central for me. i walk straight, i still got gay guys running after me. maybe its becuz of my scent. lol

[Alyssa Rae]

lucky you. some of us just arent lucky xD no matter what i do, its gaydar central for me. i walk straight, i still got gay guys running after me. maybe its becuz of my scent. lol

GREAT SCOTT! You've figured it out!  The scent must be the source.   

[Umiko]

GREAT SCOTT! You've figured it out!  The scent must be the source.   

HAHAHA! what are they, blood hounds? i try hiding and they find me. i sometimes have the feeling they wait for me until my class is finished. i even have one that rides the same bus as me. 

[Alyssa Rae]

HAHAHA! what are they, blood hounds? i try hiding and they find me. i sometimes have the feeling they wait for me until my class is finished. i even have one that rides the same bus as me. 

I'm starting to seriously consider wearing a biohazard suit until I transition, lol.  Safety is key.

In all seriousness though, I have absolutely nothing against gay people at all.  I'm just not into guys and it's incredibly awkward when a guy starts invading your personal space.

[Umiko]

I'm starting to seriously consider wearing a biohazard suit until I transition, lol.  Safety is key.

In all seriousness though, I have absolutely nothing against gay people at all.  I'm just not into guys and it's incredibly awkward when a guy starts invading your personal space.

said it many times before, i absolutely love hanging with gays. they are better to hang with than straight people most time. its just when they start the flirting, sniffing me down like a blood hound or start the stalking is when i start getting agitated and quite upset. Biohazard suit! haha! good one. i should to until my therapist finally admits defeat lol

[MbutF]

At least 5 people have asked me If I'm gay....

Ok, one more thing... I have a crush on someone here on Susans, I'm crushing on a pre-everything MTF.

[defective snowflake]

Ok, I have a crush on someone here on Susans, I'm crushing on a pre-everything MTF.

lol, wrong topic perhaps?   

[Umiko]

i was kinda about to say the same thing but every thread goes on a interesting tangent xD

[FalseHybridPrincess]

hhhhhhhhhm

Everyone who knows that Im a biological male thinks that Im gay lol...unfair to say at least but anyways...
I tried to have a relationship with a guy , but ,yeah, maybe its not for me...

I prefer girls why cant people see that XD