First Date...as MtF....disaster or is it?

[LordKAT]

I know right. Most guya now a days are jerks or only wanna get into your pants than leave you out to dry. But there are the rare good ones though but they are either gay or taken ._.

or afraid and/or lonely as you are.

[Joanna Dark]

*BIG HUG*

I Wouldnt let this experience poison all yourbfuture relations with men though. Personally,  I can go both ways but I far far prefer men as, at least for me, have found men so much more supportive and satisfying both emotionally and sexually.  Women always said I was too gentle and some women still get so jealous and catty.

But, yeah maybe its a little too soon, but judging by your avi, you're quite pretty,  so dont let opportunity pass you by. This guy is not a good represent ation of all men. By far on this site, the nicest, most caring person is a man. I dont like the term cis male. FTMs are men, just like im a woman. I dont care about genitals I care thatmy partner is masculine and dominant. I like being the dotting girl that I am. Im quite submissive, demure.

Ps: your response to this douche was so mature. Your awesome.

[luna nyan]

*yow*
*hugs*
What a horrid thing to happen to you.  The guy probably had his own hangups and problems that he hasn't dealt with, but he's a coward to not at least say to you "this isn't working for me, can I get you a cab". :/

Dating seems so fraught with disappoinment these days.

[MikaylaGC]

D'aww thank you Joanna. I had a great time today meeting up with another TG here on the Gold Coast and going back to hers and just chatting about everything. Having a good support network is really becoming apparent to me.
Many hugs back to everyone

[Eva Marie]

You know, any guy that would abandon a girl in a remote location and leave her to fend for herself is not much of a guy. A real guy would have made sure that she got home safely no matter what he thought about her - it's basic guy decency, part of the guy code, part of being a decent human being.

This guy is a selfish piece of crap and karma will surely catch up with him some day for the way he is living his life and treating others around him. I'm sorry this happened to you, but i know that you are a bit wiser for the experience. Please take care out there dating.

[Jill E]

OMG, what an ->-bleeped-<-!! I'm sorry you we're put through all of that. /:

I'm a day late, but *hugs*

[appleonia]

What a prick!!! Honestly he had malintent to begin with he may have had the whole sweet guy role downpacked online but in person he was prolly after one thing it was prolly his first time with a transgender women and he chickened out overall forget about him you are super pretty!! If i was in Australia we would get dolled up all the time and hang out.
Hes no real man what loser!
                                       Hugs,
                                  Appleonia

[Urban Christina]

I've only been on a few outings like this with people I've met and talked with online. They all seem to build up some fake image of who their talking too, no matter what is said to them. You can talk with them for months on all kinds of personal levels and it always seems to result in the same out come as you received from this man. They always act nice...then they just disappear and block you for no apparent reason or explanation.     But don't feel alone, I hear its very common for these things to happen to trans people it seems. I didn't believe it, until I lived through it several times. 

I'm sorry you were abandoned by this un-caring butt hat of a person. You don't deserve this kind of treatment because your a strong woman who deserves love and devotion.

I was going to say the exact same thing. It happens to many of us so don't take it personal and move on. It has occurred to me where I would talk to a guy for some time and he just randomly disappears. It's depressing, but there's still a few good guys out there. I'm sorry you got to experience it and don't give up.

[Laurenza]

sorry for being a total spaz and thread necro but i was forum lerking and found this post....

the guy sounds like a total ->-bleeped-<-

and Burleigh isnt the best place to be stranded late at night. hope you are feeling better now hun xxx
ps hi from tweed heads SO good to find someone relatively local

[MikaylaGC]

Thanks Laurenza  Ya I'm all good learned alot from that experience. I dont get to be 'me' much at the moment, going for electrolysis 2-3 times a week so basically I always have some facial hair(and it takes like 3 days to grow anything worthwhile now lol) which sux but yea gotta do it now right. I'm up near Surfers Paradise, say hello sometime by sending me a pvt message, we should go for a coffee or something 

[Wynternight]

That dude's an arse. I'd be happy to give him a colonocscopy with a spike heeled boot.

[YinYanga]

Spineless tosser.

Hope your next date turns out to be a keeper, here's hoping

[Sammy]

I was going to say thwt sometimes we can get lucky with the first try, but... ummmm.. hope. Apparently, this is some kind of fashion to disappear without leaving a message, clue or saying what exactly was not nice, even if the first date went well and there was supposed to be another one.

[Bols]

Real men have respect for others and the fortitude to be kind. If he was a real man, he would have apologised and offered a cab fare.
Sending you hugs! I know it's hard, but don't take it to heart. It's not right to suffer because of his failings.

[Laurenza]

Thanks Laurenza  Ya I'm all good learned alot from that experience. I dont get to be 'me' much at the moment, going for electrolysis 2-3 times a week so basically I always have some facial hair(and it takes like 3 days to grow anything worthwhile now lol) which sux but yea gotta do it now right. I'm up near Surfers Paradise, say hello sometime by sending me a pvt message, we should go for a coffee or something 

cis girls have years and years of puberty to learn all these lessons (ie that some guys are dicks), we unfortunately have a crash course with a steep learning curve. at least you're stronger for the experience

and yes!! id love to say hello and a coffee . i would love a friend ...er i mean another friend... i have lots of friends <.< >.>
will pvt msg u when im free

[Janae]

I'm so sorry this happened to you.

I wouldn't feel bad though, men are ->-bleeped-<-s sometimes and they do messed up things like this to females too. Hold your head up and keep doing you. Don't even feel bad. You'll meet a great guy and look back at this experience and laugh.