Thinking about coming out to my sister..

[CrazyDiam0nd]

So tonight I am strongly considering whether or not I should come out to my sister. Me and her are going to head downstairs and smoke a couple of bowls later on, which is a normal occurance between her and I. When we do this we just talk, listen to music, and discuss things. I was thinking maybe she'd be the best person to tell first and the most understanding. She has a friend (female) who openly wants to transition to a male..and my sister is understanding with her friend. So I think it could go well, but the other side of me thinks it would be too sudden to say out of the blue tonight. So I'm not sure, I guess I can see how the discussions go and how I feel at the particular time. So we'll see how it goes, I'll let you all know later on.

[Kat]

Good luck from me as well! Hope things work out okay, although I think they will if she already knows someone who plans on transitioning and is okay with it.  Although it is a little different when it is family.



Obligatory... don't do drugs kids 

[CrazyDiam0nd]

Good luck from me as well! Hope things work out okay, although I think they will if she already knows someone who plans on transitioning and is okay with it.  Although it is a little different when it is family.



Obligatory... don't do drugs kids 

Drugs? me??? noooo     But yeaah I truely hope I dont whimp out 

[Valkyrie]

Good luck!  ^_^

I've only come out to my girlfriend, but I'm planning on coming out to my sister next.   
I hope everything goes ok for you.

-Melissa

[CrazyDiam0nd]

Welll, whimped out. My dad came down and I immediatly said no to myself...and decided not to say anything then. I sorta even built up to it slowly...dissapointing.

[Maebh]

Me and her are going to head downstairs and smoke a couple of bowls later on, which is a normal occurance between her and I.

IMHO I don't think it is a good idea. You might feel nore relaxed and close because of it but again you could be too much stoned and misread and mishandle the situation. Or is it a cop=out where you can say afterwards it wasn't me it was the weed? Why not have this discution when you are both clear-headed? Don't you want to be able to explain and answer her possible questions without any chemical interference?

LLL&R

Maebh

[CrazyDiam0nd]

noo not usuallyy, he just came to gett the laundry out of the dryer...and was just present down there and it caused  me to not say anything...



Posted on: August 05, 2007, 09:10:16 PM

Me and her are going to head downstairs and smoke a couple of bowls later on, which is a normal occurance between her and I.

IMHO I don't think it is a good idea. You might feel nore relaxed and close because of it but again you could be too much stoned and misread and mishandle the situation. Or is it a cop=out where you can say afterwards it wasn't me it was the weed? Why not have this discution when you are both clear-headed? Don't you want to be able to explain and answer her possible questions without any chemical interference?

LLL&R

Maebh

No no there is no interference mentally on me, it just relaxes me. My sister and I have some of the best coversations at those times, its sorta a bonding thing I guess...something we have in common. I'm also not one to blame a drug for any misfortunes or screw ups... I'm pretty responsible with my drug use and very informed on everything I may do. It just seemed like an oppertune time and I was sorta feeling brave tonight. There is always tomorrow I guess, but I dont want to rush and make sure I do it when I feel good about it again.