All the surgeons you have named are capable of giving you what you can get. By that, it will depend on your personal tissue that is available. The big understanding you NEED though is that when you are first in recovery after the surgery, you will have darn little of what you list here. At 15.5 months post from Dr. Bowers, I have a pleasantly sensitive clitoris, which has gone through several stages involving pain, ho hum touch, super sensitive, ticklish, and more to get it there due to the healing process. My current "boyfriend" is a mint green Soul Source dilator who has me at 6.5 inches of depth (depending on where you measure from) on its scale, but a guy with more reach will still have fun if he wants to. After your swelling goes down, the girth increases in increments for several months, and when the doctor gives the approval as far as your healing goes, you will be able to make your BF fit just fine because if its a little snug, it feels better to the guy so they say.
Orgasm and a G-Spot for me are both yes!! The point though is that the vulvar stimulation will be only a small part of the entire orgasm which will involve much more of your body such as breasts and upper thighs, and it will not be anything like your male "O" because it will last longer. DO NOT try to envision your post op experience by what is on your plate now. The "G-spot" will make itself known early in dilation if you have fun with the dilator, but it is near the bladder, so make sure to pee before dilating. My OB/GYN thinks I look pretty close to the norm of her genetic patients, and while I rarely look at myself, I feel pretty much like my female partners ever did.
Bowers and Brassard use very similar single surgery techniques which creates the labia minora from part of your penis, and line the vagina with scrotal sac grafting.
