Quote from: Rayne on May 31, 2014, 01:07:15 PM
I don't sing.
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Anyway in general I may sing a little but only softly too myself. I guess I don't think I'm good enough to sing in-front of anyone.
This is one of my hot buttons: the pernicious idea that one has to be "good enough" before it's okay for them to sing.
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I call BS on that. If you have vocal chords, you can sing. Singing is like playing in the snow, or splashing around in the pool, or sex. You do it because it feels good. Nobody says you have to be "good enough" before you can make snow angels, or jump in a pool, or do you-know-what

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I have a son who can't carry a tune in a bucket, but when he's over at my place, sometimes I dig out my guitar and we sing. When we're at a weekend get-together (work weekend, etc.), and people dig out the songbooks and guitars and pennywhistles and whatnot, he sings along. Sometimes he even hits the "right" notes! Nobody's bothered; the point is to make a joyful noise, not to get recording contracts.
Our choir director has the same view. He likes to demonstrate the "entrance exam" for the choir: he puts his fingers on your wrist, and if you have a pulse, you're in. (Yes, we're bigoted against the undead

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So let's stamp out the idea that you aren't allowed to sing unless you're Carnegie Hall material!
Wear your voice proudly, whatever it is. Just like you wear your gender proudly.
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