OK, an "old lady" of 16 months post op here, so listen up hun!!! You sound like you are right on schedule and will probably be fine. Your surgery date says that today you are 74 days out (10.5 weeks). You are going to be healing and swollen for some time to come, even though the sutures and some of the other surface stuff is back to normal color for the most part, but you still have months to go on the timeline. At 6 months I was just beginning to have nerve sensations that made sense to me, until then if you touched me one place, my brain said it was somewhere else. I was still spraying all over my vulva every time I had to pee, and while I could feel pressure on my clit, I had to push it like a door bell button to feel it. Starting at about 11 months out of "the room" some new sensations set in, and it was pleasantly embarrassing to sit on a nice comfortable sofa. The silly look on my face must have been a dead giveaway to everyone in the room, but it was what I had been hoping for. 5 months even later, it is not quite the sharp feeling it was, but more of the area around the clit is involved. The immoral of this is that it does take time, proper care according to our surgeon's instructions, time, patience, and a grin on your face, and yes time!!
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