Lately, more than ever, men have been attracted to me (including SSGs; I can just tell when they approach me in the middle of class to speak to me). I didn't become more attractive overnight, I think, and I been too two units since basic training. At this unit, I am not secluded to the same 20-30 men who were like family. Over here, there's more guys, but I can easily pick the ones who would be into me in the crowd, and it usually slightly ugly/homely **since a handsome bisexual one will only fall for a beautiful girl due to demand/society in public**, taller/tall, and completely masculine. Thank goodness, since I only care about height. Any sign of feminity/weakness (hypermasculinity), even in a straight guy... they aren't attracted to me. And height helps a lot, the taller they are, the weaker they can become when I look at them... since guys prefer shorter females for a reason; protection. I can invoke that feeling in them sometimes with the right eye contact.
I been here for three weeks, and so far 5 guys had made a blantant physical contact on me (without knowing me). 2 of them were tall, and the other two were average tall. The two tall guys were patting me on the shoulder, and one kept adjusting my uniform and patted me on the shoulder, and they would talk to me in a dumb-down way, "You're lame *giggle* (says my name)*" or "I got a 49 on my test *giggle* the sky looks like heaven". One breathe against my neck trying to surprise me. The other guy place his hands on my shoulder and moved me. And then the other guy is the guy who keeps flirting with me, so that's going to happen. I gave one guy the direct eye contact look, and he rambled off like a loose faucet when I asked him a few questions. I want one particular tall guy, and only because I thought he might be into me because when I look at him he opened his eyes slightly more. But that's a project in its own.
It's hard to change the brain chemistry of men in society, so it's a battle searching for the few bisexuals in the room. But I even manage to make a guy look at me just by quickly glancing at him when he was talking to his beautiful girlfriend (but she had a regal/tall look).
Anyways, I know my face plays a huge role in how these men view me. I have a semi-masculine yet young looking face (people right now tell me it look 18-19), so it doesn't look gay, but my eyes are amazing. When I go into flirting mode, I talk in a higher pitch voice that can come across as natural (think Justin Bieber's voice), and I just make that guy feel like he's the most important guy in the world. If he doesn't show interest in 2-5 seconds flat I immediately change my approach into regular masculine. I gauge by their eyes, and the pupils, and their expressions, and if they look at me in the face. It fails if they don't look me in the eye, and so I make a direct effort to look into pupils (feels like a Medusa thing in fact). Not all guys will be into me, and so I won't enforce it unless they show it within that first 2-5 second time frame, since I am not going to be that weird gay guy flirting. Nor will I make effort to talk to them. When people see me they don't think of man, but "boy", or "kid", which is different... since I feel so old (I just try to maintain my looks as long as I can).... which I have too to keep men into me (based on Roman/Greek ancient history on what men find attractive; history repeats itself, and that's what men like).
The first time I think a guy saw me attracted in my military career was at basic training, and it was my drill sargeant. I was placing my beret on, and I turned around and saw him looking at me with a deer in a headlight look. I think he was bisexual after that, but he was into feminity, because when I put my beret on it look like I had hair again which transform me quite a bit. And that week, he was a little too helpful when putting my ASU uniform on, placing the medals on, and he seem happy to see me graduate more than anyone else
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I think it's a supply/demand factor playing here, since there's a proportional less females walking around. And I say there's only 1 female for every 20 that could be said to be pretty, and the rest are just okay looking. And none of them act feminine, if they act feminine they act nasty and like a low-life, and none of them wear make-up except for weekends (I don't either but I wear sunscreen/colognes/oils). The ones who manage to get guys rely on the fact that they are a female and somewhat pretty.
And there's one who acts like a really dumb blonde, and she's more like a joke and an object to people to laugh about.
