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JLT1

June 08, 2014, 10:16:26 PM
Well, after two years and four months, I go full time tomorrow.  My FFS has healed enough that I pass visually and the rest I am good on.  Thursday morning at 9:15 is my court appointment for my name change.  I start work again as Jennifer one week from tomorrow, which closes the week out.  It's been so long but I will finally be me.

Hugs to All,

Jen
To move forward is to leave behind that which has become dear. It is a call into the wild, into becoming someone currently unknown to us. For most, it is a call too frightening and too challenging to heed. For some, it is a call to be more than we were capable of being, both now and in the future.
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TerriT

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June 08, 2014, 10:28:08 PM
That is so awesome. Congratulations Jennifer! I'm sure you will do everything just perfectly.
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Valerie

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June 08, 2014, 10:37:52 PM
Aww, good for you, Jen!  You'll do great.   Congrats, and be sure to keep us posted.  ~V.. 
"When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too."                 
                                                             ~Paulo Coelho

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JLT1

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June 08, 2014, 10:44:41 PM
Quote from: TiffanyT on June 08, 2014, 10:28:08 PM
That is so awesome. Congratulations Jennifer! I'm sure you will do everything just perfectly.

Thank you Tiffany, for this post and for others.  Your support and help has been wonderful..  You are a special girl. 

Big Hugs,

Jen
To move forward is to leave behind that which has become dear. It is a call into the wild, into becoming someone currently unknown to us. For most, it is a call too frightening and too challenging to heed. For some, it is a call to be more than we were capable of being, both now and in the future.
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JLT1

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June 08, 2014, 10:45:28 PM
Quote from: Valerie on June 08, 2014, 10:37:52 PM
Aww, good for you, Jen!  You'll do great.   Congrats, and be sure to keep us posted.  ~V..

Thank you Valerie.  I'll keep everyone posted.

Hugs,

Jen
To move forward is to leave behind that which has become dear. It is a call into the wild, into becoming someone currently unknown to us. For most, it is a call too frightening and too challenging to heed. For some, it is a call to be more than we were capable of being, both now and in the future.
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Heather

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June 08, 2014, 11:23:01 PM
Congrats Jennifer! Good luck with your big week. :)
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Cindy

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June 08, 2014, 11:29:53 PM
Congratulations Jennifer.

I for one believe you will be a fantastic inspiration for members of your organisation and you should be very proud of what you are accomplishing.

My love and best wishes
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Jessica Merriman

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June 09, 2014, 12:51:54 AM
Congrats sweetie! I am so glad you are comfortable with the next huge step. :)
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Donna Elvira

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June 09, 2014, 04:13:08 AM
Quote from: JLT1 on June 08, 2014, 10:16:26 PM
Well, after two years and four months, I go full time tomorrow.  My FFS has healed enough that I pass visually and the rest I am good on.  Thursday morning at 9:15 is my court appointment for my name change.  I start work again as Jennifer one week from tomorrow, which closes the week out.  It's been so long but I will finally be me.

Hugs to All,

Jen

Wishing you all the very best Jenny and not too sure why you see at as a difficult week?  It looks like and you have all the boxes ticked and I'm actually a little jealous of all you guys who can get your name and gender markers changed so easily. If you want difficult, try France.

In spite of getting a green light from the public prosecutor last November, I'm still stuck in limbo 8 months after filing for my own civil identity change with zero visibility on when the court will make a final decision. Since the date hasn't been set, there is now no chance that it will happen before the autumn which means that I can't hope to have my papers in order  before 1Q2015 at the very earliest ie. more than 18 months after filing for the change. This is 21st century France, the land of human rights and Liberty Equality & Fraternity  :( 

Anyway, I don't want to put a damper on your red letter week and again wish you a very happy return to work as Jennifer !
Hugs
Donna
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PoeticHeart

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June 09, 2014, 04:29:22 AM
Way to go!
"I knew what I had to do and I made myself this solemn vow: that I's gonna be a lady someday. Though I didn't know when or how." - Fancy by Reba McEntire
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Ms Grace

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June 09, 2014, 06:13:16 AM
That's great news, Jen! I must have missed your recent batch of pics but I gather that's you in your avatar and I just gotta say wow!

I really hope your workplace treats you with all due respect.  You are one impressive woman! :)
Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
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Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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stephaniec

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June 09, 2014, 10:37:58 AM
very beautiful
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Eva Marie

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June 09, 2014, 10:51:25 AM
That's awesome Jennifer! I'm very happy for you :)
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JLT1

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June 09, 2014, 09:53:32 PM
Quote from: Cindy on June 08, 2014, 11:29:53 PM
Congratulations Jennifer.

I for one believe you will be a fantastic inspiration for members of your organisation and you should be very proud of what you are accomplishing.

My love and best wishes

Cindy, without your inspiration, there would be none from me..

Thank you for being there for so many of us. 

Hugs,

Jen
To move forward is to leave behind that which has become dear. It is a call into the wild, into becoming someone currently unknown to us. For most, it is a call too frightening and too challenging to heed. For some, it is a call to be more than we were capable of being, both now and in the future.
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JLT1

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June 09, 2014, 10:01:24 PM
Quote from: Heather on June 08, 2014, 11:23:01 PM
Congrats Jennifer! Good luck with your big week. :)

Thank you Heather.  I'm me and working on getting ready for next week.

Quote from: Jessica Merriman on June 09, 2014, 12:51:54 AM
Congrats sweetie! I am so glad you are comfortable with the next huge step. :)

Comfortable???  I am afraid.  But I look at you and what you have done and I draw strength.

Quote from: PoeticHeart on June 09, 2014, 04:29:22 AM
Way to go!

It' been a difficult journey.  But we will succeed.

Quote from: Ms Grace on June 09, 2014, 06:13:16 AM
That's great news, Jen! I must have missed your recent batch of pics but I gather that's you in your avatar and I just gotta say wow!   I really hope your workplace treats you with all due respect.  You are one impressive woman! :)       

Thank you Grace.  YOU are wonderful.

Quote from: stephaniec on June 09, 2014, 10:37:58 AM
very beautiful

I love you girl.....

Quote from: Eva Marie on June 09, 2014, 10:51:25 AM
That's awesome Jennifer! I'm very happy for you :)

Thank you.  I just keep going.

Hugs Everyone!!!!!!

Jen
To move forward is to leave behind that which has become dear. It is a call into the wild, into becoming someone currently unknown to us. For most, it is a call too frightening and too challenging to heed. For some, it is a call to be more than we were capable of being, both now and in the future.
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JLT1

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June 09, 2014, 10:05:52 PM
Quote from: Donna E on June 09, 2014, 04:13:08 AM
Wishing you all the very best Jenny and not too sure why you see at as a difficult week?  It looks like and you have all the boxes ticked and I'm actually a little jealous of all you guys who can get your name and gender markers changed so easily. If you want difficult, try France.

In spite of getting a green light from the public prosecutor last November, I'm still stuck in limbo 8 months after filing for my own civil identity change with zero visibility on when the court will make a final decision. Since the date hasn't been set, there is now no chance that it will happen before the autumn which means that I can't hope to have my papers in order  before 1Q2015 at the very earliest ie. more than 18 months after filing for the change. This is 21st century France, the land of human rights and Liberty Equality & Fraternity  :( 

Anyway, I don't want to put a damper on your red letter week and again wish you a very happy return to work as Jennifer !
Hugs
Donna

Donna,

I feel you pain though your posts at the injustice you have born throughout your transition.  I wish so much that it would be going smoother for you.  But I also feel your strength: a strength and determination unique to a woman.

Hugs,

Jen
To move forward is to leave behind that which has become dear. It is a call into the wild, into becoming someone currently unknown to us. For most, it is a call too frightening and too challenging to heed. For some, it is a call to be more than we were capable of being, both now and in the future.
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