Just Shelly, your arms are just perfect! But I wonder sometimes if the need for feminine validation is more pronounced in us because we're trans. I think it's actually pretty strong in cis-women too, but in my case, it's hard to forget where I came from, where I was. And I have nightmares about going back.
For the record, I just measured my wrists and biceps. Eek. I could have done without those numbers today. 😛