Hi Hypatia
I think what they mean by not feeling trans any more is once one has gone as far one can with the physical part of transitioning then that part is over but I really don't think that the psychological transitioning from Male to female is ever over. One may grow and evolve and feel more comfortable with who they represent. I think the key word is feeling comfortable with the new you.
I just believe that now you are whom you have always needed to be, relax and enjoy the ride.
If you are not up to this then it may be better that you rethink what you think you want. It is a painful arduous journey and there is no coming back.
But then if this is truly your desire then all the pain and hardship is well worth it.
Cindy
