As the title says, I was outed at a restaurant with a friend of mine. It wasn't as bad as it might sound, the waitress came over and said she doesn't normally pry but asked how far along I was, normally this would have totally blind sided me but I overheard the words "pre op" from her direction a bit earlier and assumed she was either talking about me or I miss heard. After I told her not very far long, she smiled and said congratulations and generally seemed pretty positive. It seemed to bother my friend a lot more then it did me. She was very nice about it even if it was kind of personal. And I'm not really ashamed of being trans I just keep it quiet until I trust someone, but it does indicate I wasnt passing quite as well as I would have hoped. I'm not sure if it was my voice or the fact that I lost my choker on a rollercoaster and my neck was exposed that gave it away. Anyway thought I would share since getting called out on it is kind of a new thing for me.
