You didn't fail, you haven't completed it yet.
I'm not even sure if you read the directions yet...
Somewhere in them I'm pretty sure it says something about getting it done with less drama.
You don't need to find your place, you're in the place you need to be.
You need to work with what you have going for you and stop the wishy-washy stuff.
It's like that answer that people give when someone is looking for something and they say it has to be somewhere.
Everything is always somewhere. You just need to look for it so you can find it.
What do we need to do, to help you do that? What do you need?
You talk about it, as if you need and you do get, an answer. What was the question?
Do you know what it is you're really asking? Not the stuff you've been writing about, but the stuff you haven't written about yet.
You've been given the answers to questions you haven't asked yet. Don't discard them because you haven't asked...
You're having a hard time getting to the bottom line here, the questions you really need to be asking.
I get that, it's difficult to do sometimes, for all of us.
You need to ask yourself that one true question for yourself, and if you can't find the answer and need help, ask us again.
Gonna do this, did this and that, tried a little of this over there, but changed your mind...
No, you haven't failed anything, you're just getting started.
What are you going to do today? What is your next step going to be?
What is the real bottom line going to be for you? What's it going to take to get you there?
No, no, no,... You haven't failed. You put your name on the top right corner, not much more than that.
More doing, less drama. Think about what that bottom line is, and we will do what we can, which has already been a lot.
You've been commenting a lot, yet you haven't really said much.
We've been commenting a lot and have told you as much as we can for the little you give us to go on.
Where is the bottom line? What is it? Think about this. You are, like I said before, your own worse antagonist.
Lets get to the real problems here and leave the over dramatized little things for later.
You haven't failed anything, you haven't even asked yourself the question you really want to ask.
You get stuck and then start another topic, which turns into the same thing, as each topic does.
I'm expecting a topic about what kind of sandwich you should have for lunch.
And when someone suggests a really good sandwich, it will turn into drama this and that, woe is me, life sucks, I failed.
It's not as dramatic as you make it, woe is me, life sucks is a quitter talking, saying you failed is someone who doesn't want any of that.
What are you going to do today to make it better? What is the next best step you can take?
You haven't failed, but you are wasting your time if you quit before you have even really started.
Ham and cheese. There's the answer to the sandwich topic. If you're gonna eat it, you're gonna have to chew.
Without the dramatics of eating it when it still has the crusts left on... White or whole wheat?
What are you going to do, what is the next best step to take? We can help, but you gotta chew.
Ativan
