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GRS & BA surgery with Chett August 2014

Started by Donna Elvira, July 19, 2014, 05:25:22 AM

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Evolving Beauty

WOW sweetie you're finally there. Wish you all the best my dear! All will be fine, you're in good hands! :)
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Donna Elvira

It took me 57 years to get here but it is finally done . Apparently  it all went with out a glitch and this morning , apart from à lot of itchyness, I'm feeling very good.
More than anything,  I'm so so happy that I have been able to get this done.
Hugs from à very happy lady in Bangkok
Donna
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mrs izzy

Let me personally welcome you to the Sisterhood.

Congrats and i so wish you speed in your recovery.

Hugs
Mrs. Izzy
Trans lifeline US 877-565-8860 CAD 877-330-6366 http://www.translifeline.org/
"Those who matter will never judge, this is my given path to walk in life and you have no right to judge"

I used to be grounded but now I can fly.
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Shantel

Congratulations Donna, you made it lady!
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Monkeymel

Am glad to hear it went well. Use the next few days to relax well; and speedy recovery
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Julia-Madrid

I'm so happy for you, Donna, truly!  Your speedy recovery is coming right up!  :D

Hugs
A/J
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calicarly

Low dose HRT-2004
Full time and full dose HRT-2009
BA/Rhinoplasty-May 2013
FFS-Aug 2014
Body contouring-Jan 2015
GRS- Feb 2016
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Danniella

Eeeeeee congrats Donna! :D

Lots of digital hugs and love from Scotland ^^
You say "Using humor as a defence mechanism" like it's a BAD thing!



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Ciara

Oh Donna................I am so happy for you. You must be absolutely thrilled. It can be a long road for all transgender girls, and especially for we Irish girls, but you have now come out the end of it. I am so proud of you.
Congratulations and all my love.
Ciara.
I don't have a gender issue.
I love being a girl.



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Donna Elvira

Hi all,
Thank you all for you kind messages.  I'm already back at the hotel and in far better shape than I imaged I would be at this stage. I have had no bleeding at all being able to sit, stand, lie and walk  without any particular difficulty The only thing that is bothering me is a rash I got on my back which is very, itchy.
I think it is just a consequence of my thorax  being enclosed in very tight bandages for 3 days  plus rubbing, between my sweaty skin and sheets which ended out being quite damp from my sweat too, all the more so as they have rubber bed liners below the sheet.

Anyway, since the bandages came off last night and I am no longer in contact with anything sweaty, I can reasonably hope to see the  itching subside over the next couple of days.

Since yesterday evening I can see my breasts completely and am very glad that I insisted on staying with 250cc implants. To me they already look huge compared to before, more like C cups than B,  but apparently they will lose some forward projection if I do my massage exercises correctly. Needless to say, I'll be looking after them to get the best result possible.

I also got to see down under, not a pretty sight for now , but it looks like all the planned bits are there. Tomorrow the vaginal packing will be removed  which will no doubt give me a better feel for appearances. Based on what I have been able to  see, I don't think a skin graft was used but I'll check  up on that tomorrow with the nurse who comes around.

As for the surgery itself, I was picked up at 11h00, put to bed in the recovery room beside the operating theatre, shaved  and told that the intervention would probably begin sometime between 15h00 and 16h00 when the anesthesiologist arrived.

Believing  I was in for a long wait, I started to read a book on my Kindle but had only  just read a couple  of pages when I was told it was time to go. I guess it must have been 13h00 at the latest.  Dr Chett was in the room along  with the anesthesiologist and a couple of the nurses. They asked me to lie down on the very narrow operating bed and they next thing I was conscious of was   coming around about 01h00 the following morning, feeling much better than I did after my FFS surgeries.

I got through Thursday fine but slept very badly on Thursday night, awake pretty well all through the night which got me watching the only fare available on the TV, films like Alien, Predator etc.. all lightness and goodwill towards man.  :)  A bit oppressive to be frank, especially in a smallish room, with no window and with my thorax very constrained by the bandaging.  Friday was better though and I guess you could say I caught up on the lost sleep. I did however throw up a couple of times but again, nowhere nearly as bad as the vomiting I experienced after FFS, when it felt like I was throwing up my intestines along with everything else.

Getting out of bed and ready this morning was also a delicate moment with some dizziness and nausea but, end of the day, there were no problems and my condition has improved almost by the hour over the course of the day. I have no difficulty at all looking after myself and it was really nice to get back to a place where I can do everything my own way.

It is of course very early in the day to make any definitive judgments but I can certainly say, so far so good!"

Hugs
Donna





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mrs izzy

Donna,

Glad things are faring well so far for you.

Ya laying on ones back and sweating the first few days can cause things to be sore.

Ya it is not a pretty sight for a long time, but it does in time look like what it is supposed to.

Wish you well tomorrow on removal of the stent.

Dilation, what can i say. oh maintenance. That it.

Hugs Sis,
Isabell
Mrs. Izzy
Trans lifeline US 877-565-8860 CAD 877-330-6366 http://www.translifeline.org/
"Those who matter will never judge, this is my given path to walk in life and you have no right to judge"

I used to be grounded but now I can fly.
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Shantel

Donna,
      Such a good report, glad things are running relatively smooth for you. Those rubberized under sheets are awful and reflect one's body heat right back, I would rather buy a new mattress if I had an accident than have one of those again.

Well now you are 100% girl mentally and physically, so going forward it's just a matter of smelling the roses and enjoying your life as a woman. I'm not surprised that you came through this so well without complications and undue drama, seems that your former life has prepared you to be a real survivor with a quick recovery from anything adverse which is commendable. From what a girl friend told me about her BA the breasts will settle down eventually but initially they look like rockets on one's chest. I think you showed good sense in not asking for oversized breasts like some do. I'm personally very happy for you Donna, you're really a quality human being and a nice lady in my estimation!

My best to you dear...Shan
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Donna Elvira

#52
3rd day back from the clinic and trying to get decent daily routines into place in spite of my  very erratic sleep patterns. This has been true since the second day post-surgery and  contrary to what many people report, I have sleeping little more than I normally would.

In the latest  example, I hardly slept at all yesterday, maybe an hour after my very light lunch, finally got to sleep at about 10:00pm, was woken with a start at midnight by my alarm as I have medication to take every 6 hours, got back to sleep shortly afterwards but woke up again at  04:30am.

I tried to get back to sleep but it just would not come and since I was due to wake up again at 06:00am for medication, I decided I may as well wait it out and make use of the time to do something else, in this case an episode of the series the L Word which is just about the right length to get through a 40 min breast massaging session.

On this subject, those considering BA along with  GRS (no regrets whatsoever, on the contrary), should be aware that this does add quite a lot of extra activity to your post-surgery routines.  To my considerable surprise, I was told I would need to do  4 x 40 mins of breast massaging a day for up to a year after the surgery. For practical reasons, this is very unlikely to happen but, while I am here and for the next two to three months, I will attempt to go by the recommendations.

After this morning's breast massage, a light breakfast and my medication I again tried to get back to sleep but no more successfully than earlier. Not up to a second episode of the L-Word, I then started to do some real work on a professional project I will be working on during my recovery. That finally did the trick, no doubt proving that the greater mental effort required compared to watching the L-Word, was enough to consume my remaining reserves of energy. :-) .   I must have dropped off about 07:00 am and didn't wake up again until 10:30am.

Getting back to the original subject, the daily medication and breast massaging schedule mean that I am busy for 1 hour every 6 hours. Tomorrow, when dilation will be starting, I will be busy for a good additional hour at 06:00am, 12:00am and 06:00pm. This definitely structures the day quite a lot but what happens in between depends a lot on when I have been able to sleep. I guess, best is to go with the flow and just adapt to whatever way things pan out.

Otherwise, I think it's worth reporting that I am suffering from no significant pain and have already cut back Tramadol intake to 2 a day. I'm waiting to see how the dilation session goes tomorrow before making any further changes, but have to admit to being very pleasantly surprised at how good I feel  compared to what I imaged beforehand. .

Removal of vaginal packing and first dilation tomorrow!
Hugs
Donna
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mrs izzy

So do relate.

Hugs and in all the schedule make some Donna time.

Mrs. Izzy
Trans lifeline US 877-565-8860 CAD 877-330-6366 http://www.translifeline.org/
"Those who matter will never judge, this is my given path to walk in life and you have no right to judge"

I used to be grounded but now I can fly.
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Vicky

Sorry this is so late, I was on the other side of my continent for 5 days in a place without internet service in the building, but congratulations and Welcome To The OTHER SIDE.  I am so happy to hear you doing so well, and sounding so happy.
I refuse to have a war of wits with a half armed opponent!!

Wiser now about Post Op reality!!
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Donna Elvira

#55
Yesterday was a big day with lots of firsts starting early in the morning with my first post-surgery bowel movement. Totally trouble free as were the others starting with:
•   first dilation right up to 7" creating the most extraordinary sensation  in my guts,  unlike anything I had ever experienced beforehand:  not clearly painful, definitely not pleasant but very, very, very....intense .
•   first totally female pee: not yet in spec but functional.
•   first post-surgery shower: pure delight and, in spite of the loss of a few unredeemable knots, it allowed me to get my hair back in to something like normal working order.
•   first proper meal in 11 days ie. since Sat 16th Aug.

Venus  was thus reborn, justifying the temporary change in my avatar image  :)
 
Otherwise, I'm still on a very short leash ie. while not confined to my room it is clear that I should not go beyond the confines of GRS Alley. This is justified on the need to limit any potential stress to the stiches at the back of the vaginal cleft.


( Early morning sunshine in GRS Alley)

GRS Alley, as the name suggests, is where all of Chett's Bangkok Rama patients are housed and it is really neat.  I think there are 7 or 8 of us, 3 French (including me),all the others that I know of are Americains and little by little we are all getting to know each other. Sunday evening we're even due to have a neighborhood picnic organized by Chett's team  so that should mean that we all get to meet anyone we have missed so far.

What I love is that while we all have the privacy of our own bungalows, the opportunity to sit outside to read or whatever means you also get a chance to meet others. This also provides opportunities for mutual assistance and corresponds exactly to what I was hoping for.

Getting back to my own progress, my only issue is poor sleep. This has been a problem for a number of years but has reached crisis proportions here where I would have expected the exact opposite.

Everything else is going pretty well like clockwork so far and I have zero bleeding of any kind. As all the other girls I have spoken to, generally in their twenties, also seem to be doing fine, it speaks highly for the quality of the Chett operation. A suivre....
Hugs
Donna


P.S. For relaxation, I am progressively going through several seasons of the series "The L-Word" which I am thoroughly enjoying and I also have no difficulty accessing Netflix using a VPN, in my case StrongVPN. As you have a lot of downtime here, it is worthwhile putting some thought into that before travelling.
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Julia-Madrid

Hiya Donna

Just a quick reply to say how pleased I am that you're doing so well... GRS alley looks quite cute too.

More when we skype...

Hugs
J/A
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calicarly

Love the pic you posted of GRS alley Donna! ... I must admit I am surprised to read there's no Brits there!?! ...

My warmest wishes and hugs from Belgium, I am at the corpse bride stage after surgery but after the very very tough first night after my FFS, everything else seems easy and ok.  I am pleased to hear waking up from your GRS hasn't been as bad as when you woke up from your FFS Surgeries.

I am glad you insisted on the 250cc breast implants, it does sound likely that size  would give you more like C cups, I could just tell that Chet's first instincts of giving u 350cc's were way over the water for your slender frame and where u wanted to be so I am glad it's all working out just right for you darling and it shows the importance of communicating with the surgeons what our goals are.

I will keep up with your posts and updates on your GRS and keep looking forward to your stories and pics x
Carly x
Low dose HRT-2004
Full time and full dose HRT-2009
BA/Rhinoplasty-May 2013
FFS-Aug 2014
Body contouring-Jan 2015
GRS- Feb 2016
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Shantel

Donna, thanks for the nice photo tour, it should be helpful to others to see what's available to them and serve to relieve some of the stress of wondering. I'm so pleased to know that you are doing so well!

@ Carly if that's your pre-FFS avatar photo I can't imagine why you would need any further facial beautifying dear, very pretty!
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beren_ts

Congratulations Donna :angel:. I wish you a speedy recovery. :-*
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