Alexi, if it feels to big, the break it down some more, maybe one thing until you feel comfortable then more or adding another piece.
There are a lot of little things that only you will notice that is different, just getting the feel for it.
If you're androgyn, then really what you are wearing is androgyn, as opposed to an androgynous look or fashion.
But the look, the fashion sense has many different elements to it, there isn't a strict look to it.
It's pretty flexible, so pick up on the things you like that have less impact on those around you.
It's a way for you to get used to how you want to look and not have to be worried about what someone might think.
It's a difficult thing to do sometimes, I make hardly any effort towards looking a part and look the way I feel like, which is really pretty tame.
It isn't the clothes, the look that defines you, it's how you, yourself, the way you want to do it that defines you.
You are you and who you are depends on who you want to be. Stuck for ideas? Invent yourself.
You already pretty much know yourself, just expand on it in ways that are comfortable for you, right now.
A shirt of pants, maybe a hat you like or some jewelry that appeals to you.
Also be aware that it isn't necessarily the style as it is the fit, or cut of the clothes.
Look for the cut that suites your body, the one that gives you the look without yelling at the world to look at you.
Good fitting clothes go a long ways in getting the look, more so than any particular style.
Have fun shopping! I did today.
I didn't buy anything, but I did look at some clothes that have no particular look to them, but they would fit me well.
That I didn't care for the style, is the reason I didn't buy them.
I also passed on some that I like the look of, but they just wouldn't fit me well.
If you're looking at fashion magazines , ads and just seeing something you like on the Internet where aver you go, look at how the fit looks first.
If it's professional shots of something, you can be sure that they are very fitted to the person to make them look better.
Some people can wear just about anything, so long as it fits them nicely. If it looks good, it fits properly.
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