Intimacy woe's

[Twistedmoxy]

Hey everyone! I know I'm new, so this post seems a bit out there. But I've lurker for a while and after endless searching, I'm reaching out for some advice.

I recently got a bendy buddy and mostly use it when jerking off. My girlfriend and I have become very intimate, however, it's become a slight challenge. I wear a strap on. And while my dick is making her happy, I'm not feeling much. Typically when I jerk off, I use a vibrating egg under the shaft to increase sensation. See, I can lose that 'oh yeah this is awesome' feeling pretty easily. I've heard this is common among transmen. And my theory is because you're still not physically attached your dick, so there's a disconnect.

My question is, have any of you guys experienced this? If so, what have you done to find a means to a resolution? Or, any helpful suggestions?

[Bimmer Guy]

Hey everyone! I know I'm new, so this post seems a bit out there. But I've lurker for a while and after endless searching, I'm reaching out for some advice.

I recently got a bendy buddy and mostly use it when jerking off. My girlfriend and I have become very intimate, however, it's become a slight challenge. I wear a strap on. And while my dick is making her happy, I'm not feeling much. Typically when I jerk off, I use a vibrating egg under the shaft to increase sensation. See, I can lose that 'oh yeah this is awesome' feeling pretty easily. I've heard this is common among transmen. And my theory is because you're still not physically attached your dick, so there's a disconnect.

My question is, have any of you guys experienced this? If so, what have you done to find a means to a resolution? Or, any helpful suggestions?

Some guys actually see their dicks as extensions of themselves and can orgasm just based on the mental experience.  Others may make sure they have the base of the dildo up against their growth so that they feel the dildo rubbing against it during sex.  I wonder if you purchased one of those dildos that allowed you to insert a bullet if the vibration would not only please your partner but help get you off too?

[Twistedmoxy]

Ok, call me crazy, but those exist? I've been searching for one and have yet to find one that does exactly that. My anatomy plus my sensitivity down there has been slightly challenging. But watching my hard on through my clothing has nearly given me an orgasm. I spoke with my girlfriend, and we believe it might just be the extension of me is not the right one.

Any chance you could lead me in the right direction as to where I would find what you've described?

[Bimmer Guy]

Ok, call me crazy, but those exist? I've been searching for one and have yet to find one that does exactly that. My anatomy plus my sensitivity down there has been slightly challenging. But watching my hard on through my clothing has nearly given me an orgasm. I spoke with my girlfriend, and we believe it might just be the extension of me is not the right one.

Any chance you could lead me in the right direction as to where I would find what you've described?

It was many years ago, but it was a dildo by Vixen Creations.  They have a web site. 

[Kreuzfidel]

I wish someone would design a playing cock that could stimulate the wearer without penetrating them.  Like some kind of small nub or protrusion for your bio dick.  Maybe they have for all I know, but all the cocks I find that are supposed to be pleasurable for both partners are penetrating.

[SWNID]

I wish someone would design a playing cock that could stimulate the wearer without penetrating them.  Like some kind of small nub or protrusion for your bio dick.  Maybe they have for all I know, but all the cocks I find that are supposed to be pleasurable for both partners are penetrating.

http://www.toolshedtoys.com/product_info.php/cPath/42_79/products_id/3677 how do you think about this one? It looks good but i'm not sure if it will fit the enlargement from T.