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Worried about how I would look if I went through with transition?

Started by gaypork, July 31, 2014, 08:31:00 PM

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gaypork

I've been contemplating whether or not to go through with the transition once I get the money and move out. I am half black and half asian which orients my eyes and I'm quite girly and into feminine things. I'm classified as adorable when I actually want to be handsome. I get my cheeks from my weight but since I've been losing weight, my cheeks will be fading. 20 pounds to go. But I'm not fat at all. All that weight comes from my breasts and a bit from my thighs. And possibly arms. I cannot bind as I don't have the money or support [because I have not come out. I'm only 75% sure I want to go through this transition/am transgender. Me being labeled adorable is one of the reasons.) oh, and can you suggest some hairstyles? Would a curly fro do? A swish? I would like to check them out. I'd prefer wigs so I can but them and check them out first.
http://imgur.com/ipC7rLZ (no makeup)
http://imgur.com/aAoPJyT
http://imgur.com/adirXDf (no filter)
http://imgur.com/nON01JG (natural, only foundation and concealer under the eyes)
http://imgur.com/BzBgTeF
http://imgur.com/f4Tg3Sj
http://imgur.com/ODHZUug (eyeliner only)
http://imgur.com/CPYFS07 [only foundation and concealer under the eyes]
http://imgur.com/MyQRH0H [same ^]

No negative comments please. This whole transgender thing has stressed me out and made me depressed already.

Edited for age.
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Jessica Merriman

First we do not give negative comments here. If you want an honest answer though we do give advice. If you get some you do not like just remember you asked for honest advice so don't take anything personal.  :)

My personal views are you need to give us something besides your face to tell. An overall body shot would give us a better idea as to build and posture. Looking at the face pics though, I feel you will do just fine. You should look very good, but there are other factors in the whole package to consider like voice, mannerism's, etc.  :)

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Ahlexandrah

If I was you, I would definitely go for the transition. This has improved my looks by a far lot. I dont think it will make you unattractive at anyway. You have a very good start to go through it , it will only make you look more feminine and that is what you want right? You want to match your physical appearance with your mentality, so I would say go for it girl. You can check out my transition video, maybe that helps you!

Good luck on your journey ♥

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gaypork

Quote from: Jessica Merriman on July 31, 2014, 08:37:21 PM
First we do not give negative comments here. If you want an honest answer though we do give advice. If you get some you do not like just remember you asked for honest advice so don't take anything personal.  :)

My personal views are you need to give us something besides your face to tell. An overall body shot would give us a better idea as to build and posture. Looking at the face pics though, I feel you will do just fine. You should look very good, but there are other factors in the whole package to consider like voice, mannerism's, etc.  :)

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Sorry, I'm quite new here honestly. But I rather take a step by step work, starting by my face. Thank you for your advice by the way.
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kelly_aus

Quote from: gaypork on July 31, 2014, 08:49:28 PM
Sorry, I'm quite new here honestly. But I rather take a step by step work, starting by my face. Thank you for your advice by the way.

If the whole package doesn't work, it doesn't matter how good one part looks.
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