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In the order of dysphoria, your 5 most hated secondary male charactersistics

Started by Evelyn K, July 31, 2014, 11:53:29 PM

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Evelyn K

My adams apple is my most intense source of M2F strife and it annoys the hell out of me. I am getting it scythed with extreme prejudice before the end of the year.

Anyway I would list in the order of my dysphoria:

#1 - adams apple
#2 - broader shoulders than cis female
#3 - upper body muscle mass
#4 - lower body muscle mass
#5 - decidedly male hairline

My facial features and structure are not too bad, voice is improving, my hands and feet are small and I'm short, beard shadow almost gone, so anything else would make for a more extended list ;D
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Hikari

Sure:

#1 - Voice
#2 - Stomach
#3 - face
#4 - facial hair that never seems to want to go away :(
#5 - muscle
15 years on Susans, where has all the time gone?
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ClaudiaLove

1  Adam's Apple
2  Voice
3  Big , wide bones , including shoulders , skull , hands , feet , ribcage
4  Masculine facial features , or maybe it is plain ugliness
5  Masculine digit ratio 


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Lady_Oracle

1.That thing between my legs
2.big nose

Hrt has slowly fixed everything else.
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Evelyn K

Quote from: Claudia_FF on August 01, 2014, 12:11:54 AM
1  Adam's Apple
2  Voice
3  Big , wide bones , including shoulders , skull , hands , feet , ribcage
4  Masculine facial features , or maybe it is plain ugliness
5  Masculine digit ratio

What's a masculine digit ratio? ???
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Lonicera

1) Bone structures. From the narrow hips to the shape of my jawline.
2) Facial and body hair *shudders* I'm going to laser and electrolyse every last little evil follicle into oblivion.
3) Hairline and slight thinning of hair. Why evolution? Why?
4) Voice.
5) Height. Unfortunately, I'm 6'3" which I'm guessing is due to my mother (if that's how inheritance works) since she's a similar height whereas my father is about 5'6" and is representative of that side of the family. Why couldn't I get the one thing I actually wanted to inherit from him? :P
"In the middle of the journey of our life, I came to myself in a dark wood, where the straight way was lost. It is a hard thing to speak of, how wild, harsh and impenetrable that wood was, so that thinking of it recreates the fear. It is scarcely less bitter than death: but, in order to tell of the good that I found there, I must tell of the other things I saw there." - Dante Alighieri
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Carrie Liz

Most dysphoria pre-transition:
1. Hair. (Starting to go bald was the most traumatic experience of my life.)
2. Voice. (Losing my soprano singing voice was the second most traumatic experience of my life, and I hate that I can't fully express myself vocally in the same way that cis-women can.)
3. Body hair (thank God that's gone.)
4. Muscle mass (thank God that's gone too.)
5. Wide shoulders / narrow hips

Most dysphoria now:
1. Hair (Grow faster, damn it!!! And fill in on the corners of the hairline and the back of my head, damn it!!!)
2. Voice
3. Wide shoulders / narrow hips
4. Genitals
5. Facial features. (Brow bossing / square jaw / big chin / nose)
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ClaudiaLove

  When your index finger is smaller than the ring finger , It supposedly shows that the brain is ' masculinized ' . It is common in MAAB  , and it is correlated with masculine features and better math skills than creativity and language ones ( which by the way I wrote this is correct :) , sorry , English is not my native language and some terms are unknown to me ) . Apparently virtually all transsexuals have digit ratio closer to 1  the fingers are equal lengthwise , a feature common in FAAB .
  So , I have a masculine digit ratio , and combined with OCD , it feels sometimes that all my femininity and transition is denied  .


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Ms Grace

I wouldn't say these are massively dysphoric for me but they are things on my mind so they must be...

1 Dongle/tackle/family jewels
2 Head hair... or lack thereof
3 Voice
4 Beard & mo (slowly disappearing...yay)
5 Height
Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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Sarah84

#1 kyphosis (this is unrelated to male physiology, but it is one of my major physical problems causing me that I look ugly/male-like from side view)
#2 Adams apple
#3 bone structure
#4 body and facial hair
#5 voice

My real name is Monika :)
HRT: 11.11.2014
SRS: 5.11.2015 with Chettawut
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Christine Eryn

This is a topic I've thought of A LOT...

1 - brown bossing (will fix with FFS)
2 - facial hair (electrolysis is 90% done)
3 - jaw (FFS)
4 - nose (FFS)
5 - trachea (FFS)
"There was a sculptor, and he found this stone, a special stone. He dragged it home and he worked on it for months, until he finally finished. When he was ready he showed it to his friends and they said he had created a great statue. And the sculptor said he hadn't created anything, the statue was always there, he just cleared away the small peices." Rambo III
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Eevee

1: Voice
2: Facial hair
3: Belly
4: Feet
5: Hands

(genitals is too obvious, so I didn't list it)

Eevee
#133

Because its genetic makeup is irregular, it quickly changes its form due to a variety of causes.



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Jera

1) Hair. Hair everywhere!
2) Linebacker shoulders
3) Enormous, wide feet. I doubt I'll ever be able to pull off any kind of open-toe shoes, or heels.
4) Thunder thighs
5) Huge hands
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xponentialshift

Hmm... I have yet to be significantly triggered by any of my dysphorias thankfully, but I guess my top 5 would be... From least to highest dislike:

5: Adam's apple
4: skin tone (I hate that I tan so dark. Not sure if this is a male/female thing)
3: hips (although they seem to be opening up. Yay!)
1/2: body hair / voice

Honorable mention: large hands and feet w/ big veins



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Ms Grace

By the way, I know the list is for secondary male characteristics and I put dongle at #1... but I do consider it a secondary feature ;)
Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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Juliett

Here are mine

1. Big bones
2. Facial hair
3. Facial hair
4. Stomach
5. Facial hair

I'm really curious what brow bossing is.
correlation /= causation
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Jera

Quote from: Juliett on August 01, 2014, 04:08:01 AM
I'm really curious what brow bossing is.

It's a bony sort of "ridge" right above the eyes, and below the eyebrows. A distinctly male thing.
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stephaniec

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Emmaline

1: jaw muscles (come on hrt!)
2: facial hair
3: neck thickness (going)
4: high hairline (ffs? Or getting over it)
5:  bossing (soo minor, I may get ffs)

Body... meet brain.  Now follow her lead and there will be no more trouble, you dig?



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Auroramarianna

Okay soo

Voice and chin are my most feminine features, so not very concerned with these.

1 - Body hair
2 - Adam's apple, even though it is small but I can still feel it if I touch my neck
3 - hands
4 - feet
5 - brow ridge
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