I grew zero breast tissue. How do I cope? Don't look in the mirror at all. Only look at yourself with a bra on. Bra will help it look more feminine.
Don't look at it, wear pushup bra, wear clothes that make features that you don't like less prominent, accentuate the things that you like and chin up, at least You have a prospect of breast augmentation... Others don't even have that or can't go under anesthesia
take care!