What are the odds???

[Katrinka]

Got a message today from an exboyfriend from 17 years ago who has begun transitioning. Do I have some magic power to make the men I am with want to become female? Does lightening really strike twice?

[kelly_aus]

Quite a few of my pre-transition GF's are now lesbian, so anythings possible - in many cases I was the only 'guy' they ever dated.

[mark s]

Often you fall for the same kind people.
So it's possible but not likely that exes share traits.

[blueconstancy]

Wow. And what are the odds that you'd hear about it right now?!

(I do know I used to joke that I'd found the only boy I could fall in love with b/c I preferred girls... oops.)

[Sayra]

Lol. It's the thing that we found attractive maybe? The types we choose are perhaps more likely?