Grr...I'm pretty sure I'm seeing the ugly side of male privilege right now. everyone texts me, instead of my female senior staff, asking for advice about what to do at work. It's my weekend off!! Technically it isn't even a whole weekend because I did some standby work as well. But I can't leave them out in the cold, they're new and they need the guidance. As a result, I've spent the majority of this day thinking about work, because I was helping them. And then I started to stew because the person they are asking for advice about has really been a drain on me lately. She's so horribly ungrateful and she throws everything good that she has away. She sabotages her positive relationships, wastes all her money, does things that are screwing up her health very badly. Like literally, if it weren't for what she has now, she would be homeless. This living situation is literally her last chance. I care for her, and I will always be her advocate, but sometimes I just think she needs an attitude makeover!