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Dropping "Hints"

Started by iiMTF, August 25, 2014, 05:12:36 PM

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iiMTF

Today in class I sort've gave my (favorite) teacher a little bit of a "hint" I'm transgendered (not well informed on terminology yet, nor am I sure if I'm considered transgender at this point, so not sure what to refer to myself as... sorry if I use the wrong word, feel free to correct me.. and if anyone could tell me what I should refer to myself as, that'd help... :p). It isn't much of a hint... but she was definitely surprised by it.

Basically, what we had to do was write down one problem in the community. Then, we had to list one way that community service could help solve it, and one way public policy could help solve it.

For my problem, I wrote that there isn't proper resources for transgenders in the area.
For community service, I wrote that people could raise awareness of it, and even raise money to help pay for surgeries, medicines, etc.
For public policy, I wrote that the government could cover the costs of treatments with insurance. (which, by reading these forums, I've figured out that they don't... but should!)

When she read it she seemed pretty surprised and told me it was cool that I was well informed on it (she has no idea lol) and that she didn't even know about it until college.

She then asked me if I had any family members or close friends who are transgender. I'm not sure if it was technically lying, but I said no. But I don't know anyone in real life (by that, I mean I've actually MET anyone face to face) who is, other than myself soooo... I dunno.

Well, that was my little "hint".

~A~
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kelly_aus

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Why the need to be careful? There's no mental illness, no obvious suicidal ideation and there are no issues of abuse.. This is not a 'reportable' issue in any way, Johanna. The teacher has also indicated that she was open minded on the topic.


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JohannaJohn

Quote from: kelly_aus on August 25, 2014, 06:20:22 PM
Why the need to be careful? There's no mental illness, no obvious suicidal ideation and there are no issues of abuse.. This is not a 'reportable' issue in any way, Johanna. The teacher has also indicated that she was open minded on the topic.

Kelly, I defer to your obviously greater expertise than I have on this subject.

Maybe she can indeed "come out" a little more robustly than I was implying.  At least a little more so.  But "coming out" is usually a little tricky, from what I can tell.

I think she deserves congratulations, in any case.

Johanna.
I am female.
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iiMTF

Looking at the responses, a little confused. I get Johanna's response was removed, but... still confused.

~A~
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Valleyrie

Transgender is an umbrella term but it basically means you identify as something other than your sex (physicality) or you don't conform to the standard male or female notions of society (from my knowledge). I think it's cool you chose to cover the topic of transgender people in school. I never knew anyone back in school who did or was brave enough to and plus you're raising awareness even if it's just in a classroom setting. :) That's not lying as she wasn't directly asking if you were but it's okay to lie if you feel like your safety is of concern and you don't need to tell anyone anything if you don't want to. Your teacher seems quite open-minded and curious about it. Not to jump to conclusions but is there a reason you're dropping hints? Do you plan to transition socially at school or at least tell a few people there like your teacher for example? Take care. ;)
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LizMarie

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My own response to any young trans person is always this - if there is any remote chance you might end up thrown out of your home, then don't come out. A teenager alone on the streets is not a good thing. Please be safe. Now if the people are accepting, that changes things, but do please be safe first and foremost.
The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away.



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