I can hear what you mean, at about 1.08/9 and 2.40/1 are examples when she breathes in. I think it's definitely something can gather opinions on, because it's quite difficult to tell as it's quite subjective...it's kind of like something I wouldn't have noticed if you hadn't said, though once it is said that's when you can sort of hear the difference, at least me anyway, definitely need more opinions.
But those ones of you breathing, I would have definitely said they were feminine, so as I say I wouldn't worry too much in that sense. I'll definitely try to look at/record my own breathing, see how that sounds.