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Rich, But Wrong Gender OR Poor, But Right Gender?

Started by iiMTF, September 03, 2014, 08:07:07 PM

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Would you rather...

Be rich with the wrong body
20 (16.3%)
Be poor with the right body
96 (78%)
Other (please specify... but why would you say other? Not an option!)
7 (5.7%)

Total Members Voted: 110

sebster

If I was rich I'd buy a bionic cock that put any biodicks to shame.
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Lostkitten

Not sure why I put poor and the right body x_x. I honestly am way too much career focussed. I do not care so much about money so maybe that is why but I do put my career in front of a lot of things.
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Dalibar

"He viewed his own mentality as grotesque but useful, like a chair made of antlers. There was nothing he could do about it."
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Eevee

I'm poor right now. If someone gave me the choice of having the right body or 10 million dollars, though, I'd definitely pick the right body. I don't need a lot of money to be happy. All I ever want with money is enough to be comfortable, which I can earn on my own as it is.

Eevee
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Jess42

Other, because if I was poor and had the right body, I wouldn't be who I am. If I was rich and had the wrong body, I ain't rich but do have the wrong body or what nature dealt me, I wouldn't be me.

I am who I am. All the derogatory names aside, all the other BS aside and dysphoria aside. I'm me. without all the other crap, I wouldn't be me. Cursed? Oh yeah it definitely feels like that. Blessed? Not as much as cursed but still has some advantages. So what am I? I really don't know and wish someone could tell me. I just know who I am and that is priceless to me. No matter how much I may hate what I am sometimes. Who I am though gives me that little sliver of hope. Yeah I know because it don't make much sense to me either. :-\ :'(
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Releca

Quote from: Eevee on November 20, 2014, 03:22:45 PM
I'm poor right now. If someone gave me the choice of having the right body or 10 million dollars, though, I'd definitely pick the right body. I don't need a lot of money to be happy. All I ever want with money is enough to be comfortable, which I can earn on my own as it is.

Completely agree with you Eevee money is nice to survive but if you made me rich beyond my wildest dreams I'd use it to get the right body anyway so either way the end result would be the same.
I am a caterpillar creeping along a leaf.
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Pandora

#26
This is a no brainer for me - I would give away every last cent to have the right gender and make the dysphoria go away.
Sadly there are some things money can't buy and this is one them.

Quite a few variants on this poll also come to mind, for example:

- Poor and pass perfectly OR rich and not pass
- Poor and allowed to transition OR rich but not allowed to transition (e.g. must present birth gender and do without any HRT, FFS, BA, GRS etc.)
- Poor and be born cis OR rich and have to go through transition
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MattAverage

I'd take being poor and being born with a matching brain and body any day. I'm already poor, and it's not like taking a couple steps down would make much of a difference.
I don't know what I'm doing.
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Lady Smith

All the money in the world isn't worth being miserable.  It's a no-brainer really.
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kelly_aus

I've been rich. I've been poor..

I'll take poor and happy with who I am any day.
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Mariah

As along as I'm happy and me I don't care so if that means I have to be poor so be it.
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karevsparks

Definitely B for me


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Oriah

I'm already living option b.  Its rough, but worth it.  Homelessness is a lot harder when you are trans though
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JLT1

I've been homeless,  alone and very, very hungry.  I'm currently close to rich.  Suicidal thoughts only came because of not being me....

Poor any day.

Hugs

Jen
To move forward is to leave behind that which has become dear. It is a call into the wild, into becoming someone currently unknown to us. For most, it is a call too frightening and too challenging to heed. For some, it is a call to be more than we were capable of being, both now and in the future.
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LizK

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bibilinda

Quote from: iiMTF on September 03, 2014, 08:07:07 PM
Alright, guys and girls. I've got a poll for you.

Would you rather:
A. Live a rich and successful life, a millionaire, possibly famous... But living with the torture of being the wrong gender?

B. Live a life of poverty, living on the streets, not knowing where your next meal is coming from... (like, POOR. Can't even afford something from the Dollar Store) But living as the correct gender?

And no, you can't just transition when you're rich and successful. You're the wrong gender as long as you live.

Also, you stay these ways the rest of your life. You never get out of poverty, you never stop being rich.

My personal choice is B. I worry more about growing up as a man then I do about being poor, so B is for me.

How about you guys and gals?

iiMTF

You know, at first I had a long thought about it, thinking only me me me as usual.  But then I came to my senses.

I chose rich for a simple reason: it is the selfless choice. It is the one that would allow me to actually do stuff for others, to make this busted up world of ours a bit better, even if just a tad bit. To be able to try and sponsor research to solve the things that mortify myself the most as a human: our inability to cure total blindness, to regrow limbs, to cure permanent disabling conditions such as diabetes and cancer and of course to detect and cure gender dysphoria even before the baby is born.

And as a very personal choice I'd use some of my millions to do research and re-locate all pests like rats, roaches, poisonous animals, sharks, etc., to special places where they would live happily ever after in their own ecosystem, without us getting in their way, thus making our lives miserable. And many other things like promoting the construction and use of non-gasoline fueled vehicles and airplanes. I mean the list goes on and on it's endless. Of course part of my research funds, a significant part, and yes this would be selfish because nobody likes to be miserable, would also be to do research to find ways to really cope with and eventually eliminate any depression, suicidal or anxiety issues regarding gender dysphoria, once one is at a point of an impossible physical cure for life, as it would be in my particular case, by choosing option #1.

This is of course, the very extreme case: I would be a billionaire (extremely rich) as opposed to an utter indigent person who would really serve no purpose but to maybe smile to a few people because she is happy as a woman, for a couple of days before I die of starvation (I mean if I can't even purchase stuff at the one-dollar store, I am not gonna last a week alive, let's be serious).

Oh this was just sort of an incoherent rambling here, but that's the way I feel. I cry and feel so useless when I see a disabled person begging in the streets (no legs, blind, no arms, etc.) and at that very moment I feel I just don't have the right to feel sorry for myself. With billions at least I could try and see less and less of that. And of course if I could prevent war, atrocities in places like Africa and other places really stricken by poverty, I would use my money for that as well.

Cheers

Bibi B.

P.S. Almost forgot, I'd definitely fund a program to start replacing all these big old stupid street lights that produce that disgusting light pollution cloud in 99% of the cities in our world, for non-light-polluting technology, so we all could see our beautiful Milky Way band without having to drive away to the desert, climb up in the mountains by the clouds of the very Kilimanjaro or sink ourselves at the bottom of the ocean and die in a Titanic-like fashion, but at least having watched THE REAL NIGHT SKY once in our pity human lives! Have you ever been under the shadow --yes the shadow--  of a tree right under either Venus, Jupiter or Mars at maximum magnitude (at opposition) or even the brightest part of the Milky Way in a moonless night? Believe it or not, in places where the sky is truly dark as it should be everywhere, those objects that we barely see in the city (the planets) or don't see at all (the Milky Way band) are capable of producing faint shadows, similar to the ones we see by a faintly-illuminated Moon!!!
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Azurefrost

Money doesn't buy happiness. I would rather lead a happy life than a sad, but wealthy one.
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sparrow

Quote from: iiMTF on September 03, 2014, 08:28:01 PM
Why do you only plan on living until 40? Most people are living until like 80, nowadays.

This sentiment is common among youth.  I used to think that way.  A large number of my friends did, too.  My grandma said that the same was true in her generation.  It's beneficial for warlike tribes to have a certain percentage of youth willing to sacrifice themselves.  Stands to reason that we evolved this way.
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Kylo

The 'sensible' choice would be to be rich, stuck in the gender. Because even if I never medically transitioned I could still present however I want. And it makes more sense to me to be rich with a gender problem than cis with a starvation problem.

That said, I could be dirt poor and right-gendered, and still get myself off the ground potentially by applying myself. With the extra confidence and comfort being in the right gender would afford I'm sure it would be easier doing that than it is doing it now. 

I've never been about the money though. If I was I wouldn't have a creative job. I can live on next to nothing, really, and I'm happy enough with my outlets. Either choice would be fine. I'd find a way to make either work for me.
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schwarzwalderkirschtort

B.

Easier to be a man in the streets than in my current state. As Bibilinda said, I'd love to be able to give things to other people, but I doubt I'd live to get anywhere if I was in the wrong gender and rich.
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