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Started by Jaz650, September 19, 2014, 08:28:13 PM

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Jaz650

For the last month I've been serious about dating, but just a couple minutes ago, a guy told me he is not monogamous. I lost a really good guy yesterday, but he was a bit strange. I don't care anymore, I'm having SRS in four months! I'm just going to focus completely in school. The better of an education, equals a better job, equals more surgeries, which equals more guys after me!






You must be true to yourself, in order to be true to God! - Jaz
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Ms Grace

And any guy would be lucky to have a great gal like you! :)
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Jessica Merriman

Great attitude sweetie! Wishing you the best. You have a good head on your shoulders and some guy will be extremely lucky to have yours on his someday.  :)
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stephaniec

Quote from: Ms Grace on September 19, 2014, 08:29:54 PM
And any guy would be lucky to have a great gal like you! :)
2nd this
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Leila

Good positive attitude.  :)

Invest in your future now and all the good things will fall into place sure enough.
Nobody's perfect ...   I'll never try,
But I promise I'm worth it, if you just open up your eyes,
I don't need a second chance, I need a friend,
Someone who's gonna stand by me right there till the end,
If you want the best of my heart, you've just gotta see the good in me.
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ImagineKate

 Focusing on school is a good idea. Better yet if you can solely focus on it without distraction.
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LadyoftheRockies

Wait... I'm confused... He told you he was non-monogamous and then what? You dumped him?

If that is correct, I guess you have the right if your partner wants a change in the relationship. As a polyamorous lady, I have to say that I feel more sorry for him. I guess that to me it seems a bit hypocritical that he accepted you for who you are, but when he opened up about who he is, it wasn't reciprocated.

Sorry to be a Debbie downer, I've just been in his shoes, though I was married!
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mac1

Quote from: Jaz650 on September 19, 2014, 08:28:13 PM
For the last month I've been serious about dating, but just a couple minutes ago, a guy told me he is not monogamous. I lost a really good guy yesterday, but he was a bit strange. I don't care anymore, I'm having SRS in four months! I'm just going to focus completely in school. The better of an education, equals a better job, equals more surgeries, which equals more guys after me!
I don't understand what you mean by this.
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LizMarie

Jazz, I made the decision myself that I simply did not want a relationship until I can complete GRS. I don't want the complications, etc. That's not to say something might not happen along the way, but I'm deliberately not putting myself out there or trying at all.

So I can understand that decision and wanting to get on with things so you can move forward.
The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away.



~ Cara Elizabeth
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Mark3

Quote from: Jaz650 on September 19, 2014, 08:28:13 PM
I'm just going to focus completely in school. The better of an education, equals a better job, equals more surgeries, which equals more guys after me!

You GO girl..!
You definitely have a great future ahead of you..!
Any guy should be proud to meet you..!!
"The soul is beyond male and female as it is beyond life and death."
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