For the last month I've been serious about dating, but just a couple minutes ago, a guy told me he is not monogamous. I lost a really good guy yesterday, but he was a bit strange. I don't care anymore, I'm having SRS in four months! I'm just going to focus completely in school. The better of an education, equals a better job, equals more surgeries, which equals more guys after me!

And any guy would be lucky to have a great gal like you!

Great attitude sweetie! Wishing you the best. You have a good head on your shoulders and some guy will be extremely lucky to have yours on his someday. 

Quote from: Ms Grace on September 19, 2014, 08:29:54 PM
And any guy would be lucky to have a great gal like you!

2nd this

Good positive attitude. 

Invest in your future now and all the good things will fall into place sure enough.

 Focusing on school is a good idea. Better yet if you can solely focus on it without distraction.

Wait... I'm confused... He told you he was non-monogamous and then what? You dumped him?

If that is correct, I guess you have the right if your partner wants a change in the relationship. As a polyamorous lady, I have to say that I feel more sorry for him. I guess that to me it seems a bit hypocritical that he accepted you for who you are, but when he opened up about who he is, it wasn't reciprocated.

Sorry to be a Debbie downer, I've just been in his shoes, though I was married!

Quote from: Jaz650 on September 19, 2014, 08:28:13 PM
For the last month I've been serious about dating, but just a couple minutes ago, a guy told me he is not monogamous. I lost a really good guy yesterday, but he was a bit strange. I don't care anymore, I'm having SRS in four months! I'm just going to focus completely in school. The better of an education, equals a better job, equals more surgeries, which equals more guys after me!

I don't understand what you mean by this.

Jazz, I made the decision myself that I simply did not want a relationship until I can complete GRS. I don't want the complications, etc. That's not to say something might not happen along the way, but I'm deliberately not putting myself out there or trying at all.

So I can understand that decision and wanting to get on with things so you can move forward.

Quote from: Jaz650 on September 19, 2014, 08:28:13 PM
I'm just going to focus completely in school. The better of an education, equals a better job, equals more surgeries, which equals more guys after me!

You GO girl..!
You definitely have a great future ahead of you..!
Any guy should be proud to meet you..!!