Does anyone look at guys aaaaannnd...

[Jess42]

I look at guys annnnnndddd. What would they think of me? Or darn, he is cute, I wonder what he would think of a trans woman. Or I really wish he would look over here and hit on me. Or look at me and wink and we would go to his place drink a bottle of Port wine and do the "nasty" all night long and the next night and the next night and then live happily forever. Of course I got that now and he passes out an I ma writing this post on susans at 2 AM and when he wakes up in the morning and wants something then I will be sleepy. Ahhh who am kidding? I give him whatever he wants.

BTW. It is really sad when a trans woman can outdrink a guy and still give him the "good stuff" in the morning. Especially between a rocker chick and rocker dude. He should be out and picking his nose ion the john hitting on the barstool bunnies and coming home to me and ready to go. I guess it's gonna' be a white rabbit night tonight. 🙁 He really should be ashamed of himself. I may even show him this one post in the morning. What do you girls think?

[Miranda Catherine]

I'm with someone I really love, but there are guys who really make me turn my head, although I'm not in the meet market. I love being looked at and having guys say something to me, but one takes the cake. There were two cute guys in their thirties who twisted their heads and said "That woman is definitely a MILF. That made my week!

[Jess42]

I'm with someone I really love, but there are guys who really make me turn my head, although I'm not in the meet market. I love being looked at and having guys say something to me, but one takes the cake. There were two cute guys in their thirties who twisted their heads and said "That woman is definitely a MILF. That made my week!

MILF. That is definitely a badge of honor once you get past the age of 30. that would have made my year.

[Joanna Dark]

MILF. That is definitely a badge of honor once you get past the age of 30. that would have made my year.

Age of 30?  ACK. I'm MILF material at 31. generally, i think when men open their mouths and start to say something, it's to make fun of me. But today a bunch of 18-19 year olds rode by on their BMX bikes, kids that age do that in Philly, big bike city, and instead the one said "dam girl you fine," and another said "Yeah your tits just don't quit," while the other was more of a gentlemen and said "Let me get those digits girl." Then they rode away hooting and hollering. Made my night. Usually, I detest street harassment but it wasn't too bad nor touchy feely so it was validating when I needed some.

But I never look at men and ask how they'd look on HRT. Nor do I ever guess if people are trans cause of body movements, look or mannerisms. Sometimes I can spot someone, but that's usually it's a case of poor dress, lack of makeup skills (ie bad beard shadow) or just obvious transness. I respect the latter a lot. If I didn't know I would pass 100 percent and be pretty/prettyish, I wouldn't have done it.

[luna nyan]

I look at guys and am jealous of how easily they wear their masculinity.

Then again some guys look so andro that they would probably look good in anything, burlap sack included.

[Jess42]

I look at guys and am jealous of how easily they wear their masculinity.

Then again some guys look so andro that they would probably look good in anything, burlap sack included.

Not me. No way in the world am I jealous of anything masculine. I tired it a failed miserably at it. Hairy all over and stinky after you sweat and just uncomfortable al the time. OK so this is kind of a stupid pondering like why do you park in a drive way and drive on a park way? But why do guys have short hair on their heads, or the majority anyway and hairy everywhere else and women have long hair and smooth skin everywhere else? Especially when a lot of guys woirk outside in the heat and sweat and all that body hair does is make an odor? Just kind of wondering on that one.

[Carrie Liz]

There was this one long-haired guy I saw who looked COMPLETELY like a girl, (and yet was very clearly a guy because he was dressed completely male and spoke in a completely male voice.) And I was indeed like "f*** you and your perfect androgyny, you feminine b*****d."

I also do pick apart the male features in women's faces too, trying to convince myself that I'm not too bad, that other women have big chins and more male-looking foreheads as well, but that tends to backfire, as I'll constantly see girls who don't, and get down on myself about how they make my attempts at femininity look like a joke by comparison.

To be fair, though, most of the time I look at guys, especially middle-aged guys, it does make me feel better to know that at least I'm not one of them anymore. I see their noses and hands and blocky frames and balding hair and see other people treating them like emotionless dudebros just like I used to be treated, and I yell up to the heavens "Thank GOD I'm not a guy anymore!"

It's extremely rare that I ever find myself jealous of the feminine features in men anymore.

[stephaniec]

I'm kind of into soft blondish hairy legs at the moment.

[Jess42]

Well I ain;t even gonna' say what my aaaannnn... is when I look at guys. Androgynous, effeminate, masculine, short hair, long hair or no hair (head or body) I always wonder the same thing.

[BunnyBee]

Yeah I pretty much pick everybody apart, but in a nice way. I definitely do all of this stuff, along with less gendery, just normal ways. i like watching people and imagining lives for them.

[Ryan55]

Lol this is funny cause I do this sometimes when I'm bored also but it's with cis females. A lot of the time it's me wishing I had the height and picking out masculine features and if they would have a harder time or easier time then me transitioning.

[Damara]

I do this quite a bit as well, my sister does too! I also feel a bit jealous at times over the men with feminine features and bodies.. which isn't good.

[BreezyB]

I'm a sucker for this, but there are some guys I see on the train that actually look like their transitioning or if not, it would be a cinch for them to do it. Does make me a little jealous 

[Jess42]

OK. So am I the only one that thinks or wonder how big he is? Or maybe how much he can....Well, Ya'll know the rest. But seriously though when I look at a guy it is not to the capacity of how pretty of a woman he would make if he transitioned. There are only two things on my mind. Maybe three. 1. Would he like me? 2.How big is he? Well, maybe there are three questions but I better not eat anything before the third question. Well maybe four. Should I douche before we go to his place or mine?

But that is the main four questions I ask myself. Never how pretty of a female he would make if he ever transitioned. When I see a cute guy, a female is the absolute last thing on my mind. But in the same toss of the coin, when I see a cute female a man is the last thing on my mind.

Seriously though when I want a man, I want a man. When I want a woman I want a woman. Trans or cis aside as long as man or woman, male or female.

[peky]

He he he... yes, I confess I do notice men whose faces would allow them to transition easily (without FFS, darm!!).    In Spain this is not frequent, but I was in Sweden this week, and the guy looking after the coat-check at a venue had the most beautiful feminine face.  Mind you, Scandinavians often have gentle features.

But to follow on from MsGrace, when I'm on the metro and I see guys who are so very masculine, a few thoughts do go through my head:

"How happy and un-selfconscious he is being a guy.  I never was like that..."
      "Yummy!   (From time to time)
            "Urgh!  Glad I'm now a girl...(frequently)"
                  "This would require an impossible amount of FFS...."

Hugs
Adin

3 months in Aarhus and another 3 months in Delf, two summer in a row,  while i was 19 YO... I thought I have died and gone to heaven. they were all sooooo beautiful... so starved for passion and affection.. strange creatures.. the elfs... I miss them... and just to think I am genetically related to them but alas I do not look like them ... but I do love them... one of this days I am going to elope to Aasgard ... LOL

[Deinewelt]

I feel like this whole thread just solidifies the idea that we have a gender preference for ourselves such that we look at other people and, sort of, impose our own imaginary preference upon them.  Fortunately, some great fundamental (f)law in the cosmic ordering of things prevents us from actually mentally causing others to do our bidding.  I see a person who would have an easy transition FTM or MTF and think, gee they would have such a great time, but in reality, they most likely are cis person who is perfectly happy as a man or woman.  In our world, we are what we are, and it can reflect back upon us when we see others.

Sometimes I think that mirror is so reflective that anywhere I look I see transgender.  Maybe that woman or man is actually transgender?  Maybe they haven't yet realized that this is who they are?  It really isn't any of my business, but yeah, maybe the world is just filled with deception, and the only truth can be found by looking within.  Sorry for the deep post haha 😀

[kaye]

Yep. I say it to myself constantly, 'he could transition better than me'  and 'he could transition better than me'...etc.

[FrancisAnn]

I never have & that seems so strange to me. I only look & think about his private parts, the bulge in his pants & how big it is, how he would look naked & wonder how it would be to be in bed with him. I consider myself as a hetrosexual woman attracted to a hetrosexual men. Guess I'm an old style woman.

[Skeptoid]

It's bad enough worrying about my own face. Mostly I don't see too many guys who look all that feminine. It's hard to imagine them coming across as women without serious effort. There are some trans girls I'm super jealous of though.

[Natalie]

No, I've never thought anything like that when I've looked at guys...just say things like, "Dang he is some candy for sure" or something along those lines.