wannabeme,
I'm new to all of this too and have felt the very same way. I get so jealous of so many of the women I see. I've decided I've got to stay away from that jealousy and focus on who I am. I'll never be them; not the body, not the hair, not the features. I can only be me and can only try to make me look the best I can.
That doesn't mean I don't look at other women, jealous of all the time I've missed as a woman.
I'm so new I haven't bothered checking out how to message individuals, but I'm open to other people's vents. I probably am not allowed to message yet; still a newb. And I'm so darned needy myself, but I guess that's why we're here... to lean on each other.
Hopefully we'll all find our way.