Lives touching lives, altered presentations for the comfort of family

[Satinjoy]

Camisole not Camille, tough,not touch.  Stupid smart phone...

Nails out

Satinjoy

[Shantel]

Camisole not Camille, tough,not touch.  Stupid smart phone...

Nails out

Satinjoy

:laugh:I downloaded a new operating system on my laptop that routinely changes and misspells everything I write. So much for artificial intelligence!

[Shantel]

My cis spouse has become fiercely supportive, but it's taken some time for her to reach that point and I worked with her patiently until we can both go bra shopping together and she can say, "This would work well for you, or this looks cute on you!" We're close and very intimate, more so than most trans/cis couples. She likes my taste in female tops and shoes and is fine with my mix and match attire.

Let me expand on the foregoing commentary by saying that this all came about as the result of two marriage counseling sessions with a cis male reputed to be one of the finest marriage counselors in the entire country. When he learned that we had no intention of breaking up in spite of the fact that I had been surgically neutered some years earlier, he just couldn't wrap his mind around how that could be. His pretty young female intern that was with him got it right away. Now let me say that a vast number of cis males entire life and reason for existence is centered in the fact that they have a penis and gonads, so there was in essence a vast chasm that developed instantly between he and myself upon learning that I was in fact trans and that my spouse and I still loved one another in spite of it. As we left that session she was furious and said, "What an imbecile, even his young intern got it, expert my ass!" This is what really cemented our relationship from that moment forward. We made it a point to always spend quality time discussing things between us, private things that no expert needs to be privy to.

[JLT1]

I met my wife at a dance.  She had been a ballroom dance instructor for years.  I was just learning.  We danced together for about a year and a half and then started competing as a couple.  After a few years of that, I had to move away for a job.  Five years later, out of the blue, she came to the town where I live to see a friend of hers and called me.  She was newly divorced.  We were married 3 months later.

We have danced together literally every week of our marriage.  While adjusting to Jean and Jen is still a work in progress, we both agree that I will dress as male to go dancing.  After all these years, she really is world class and although I'm not at that level, I am good.

Where we go, everyone knows Jennifer.  They are also concerned about me and ask if being a guy again "is OK?" and "How do I do it".  I like to dance and I love her.  It's not that hard for a few hours.

She is my only exception.

Hugs,

Jen

[Taka]

in the music course in high school, there are usually never enough boys (norway). this means that in obligatory dance classes in the 1st year, most girls will end up dancing as a guy. in female clothing though. one of my favorite ways to mess with guys, is to take the wrong role for a "girl" when dancing. those who aren't good at it will get really confused and have no idea why.

your wife sounds like a great woman, shan. i want one of those too...

[Shantel]

"I like to dance and I love her.  It's not that hard for a few hours."
That's the bottom line Jen! I expect that you will have a long and loving relationship because of your selfless willingness to do what it takes.

"your wife sounds like a great woman, shan. i want one of those too..."
There out there Taka, she's a very attractive type A personality!