Frankly, almost every time I see trans people featured in the news they're behaving badly, too. I think that's how the news works.
I'm a feminist, I have a lot of feminist friends, I follow some prominent feminists on social media, and they all accept trans women. (I wouldn't associate with them if they didn't.) The trans-exclusionary ones are a) loud and b) old and have a lot of experience at making themselves heard, so they get a lot of attention from a news media that favors controversy and thinks dinosaur = important, but they don't speak for more than a small minority at this point.
There's even a Seven Sisters women's college accepting trans women this year. And at the ones that didn't, the student body protested with signs and everything - it's another case of old, out of touch women in the bureaucracy making choices that younger women find horrifying in the modern age.