Boobs

[Riley Skye]

Well before I get into it I want to say I am well adjusted and very happy to my transition and I'm sorry I barely post at all here but from lurking around I can see how wonderful you guys are!

I'm going to be very honest because I feel confused. I am having a little dysphoria with my boobs. Sometimes I just wish my chest were flat. I wear sports bras to compress them slightly. I still feel like a woman and enjoy being one finally, I also know bottom surgery is the right thing for me. I feel weird about have a slight dysphoria over my chest. It isn't like I want surgery to get rid of them but I want them small. outside of sex I'm not the biggest fan of them. Is it normal to feel this way? I like having curves, hips, a butt and fair skin, I can't wait for my vagina too! I just feel insecure about my feelings towards my breasts...

[Rachel]

Hi Riley,

I am about 17 months on HRT and my breasts are progressing well. I now need to wear a sports bra or I bounce. I am not big but progressing well. I am self conscious except when I am in a safe place. I see some guys looking and I feel strange. I am sure I will get bigger in time and I need to get more self confidence about my body.  I just wished I knew what people were thinking.

[Ms Grace]

As with all women, trans and cis, we don't generally get the "ideal" body we believe we should have. Many women with big breasts want them smaller. Many with smaller breasts want bigger ones. Many cis women have dysphoria about their bodies too.

[CrysC]

No matter what you get you'll almost still want something more or different.  That's just a human thing be you guy or girl. 
For my part I want some booty and a trimmer waist.  Those are two things that are hard to work towards at the same time. 

[Stephanie2]

No matter what you get you'll almost still want something more or different.  That's just a human thing be you guy or girl. 
For my part I want some booty and a trimmer waist.  Those are two things that are hard to work towards at the same time.

I can really relate to that. I thought that a C cup would be my goal, but now wouldn't mind if the girls would get bigger. At a small C cup now, but maybe a large C cup or small D cup will do? Or not! They sure are addictive, I will certainly attest to that!! I also would like some hips and smaller waist, also.

[Ellie_L]

I know some who wish they had smaller breasts, some who wished they had bigger breasts, and some who wished they had no breasts.
Almost all of them at one time or another has said they were annoying and had no idea what men saw in them.

Your feeling towards your breasts sounds pretty normal to me

[Riley Skye]

I just feel so weird about my breasts lol. I do love my new body anyways!

[speckyhailey]

I'm quite far from a transition but I want to have around C to D sized breasts as I'm a relatively big build and I want them to still look a decent size on me

[KatrinaLynne]

As with all women, trans and cis, we don't generally get the "ideal" body we believe we should have. Many women with big breasts want them smaller. Many with smaller breasts want bigger ones. Many cis women have dysphoria about their bodies too.

Ain't that the truth. My wife's best friends daughter had overly sized breasts. She just had reduction surgery and now that she is healed she has told her mom they are too small.

I myself would like anything that would give any kind if cleavage when in a bra. But hidable when needed. That may change as I progress more but for now. Hips and butt and waist are my main concern.

[noleen111]

Agree with  the posts here

All woman or at least most of them dont like something about their bodies..

I love my D cup breasts.. my dislike... my butt... All the woman in my family have a rounder butt... and i inherited it .. I think thats why I dont wear jeans too much as my round butt is shown.. I can kinda hide it better in a dress. I love wearing dresses... so its cool.

[Lisatrans69]

Prior to GCS, my breasts, starting young, only reached an A-cup. Now post-op 5 years I have a pretty B-cup and am happy. Breasts are one of the main outward symbol of femininity! I love my 'girls'

[Apple]

Hi Riley Skye,

in my opinion, there are many things on the female body that one might object to in daily life: breasts getting in the way, hurting our backs, and being painful themselves; the need for increased hygiene brought about by the short urethra, having to religiously wipe after every peeing; the dreaded menstruation; the menopause; etc.

Yet most of us would pay anything in order to get them! But only when we do, can we start "hating" them. There are countless cis woman who do. But in the end... in the very end... it's in fact good to have them.

So I think that you may have approached the border where living as a female is so deeply a matter-of-course to you, that you can start "hating" the elements of it. But I surely would be scared of such a feeling myself, as it would remind me of my doubts from the past ("am I really...?")... and so it might look like an inverted dysphoria to you.

Best Regards,
Apple

[Hikari]

I love my boobs, but I could certainly see myself getting frustrated by them, after all they *do* get in the way of lots of things. I don't think there is anything wrong with not being super positive towards them just remember that your body is going to do with those hormones what it wants to!

[Riley Skye]

It's that ideally I wouldn't have boobs lol. They're just there and I prefer having a flat chest. My ideal body is more of an androgynous body band when I lose some weight I'll be very happy

[Stephanie2]

I am overweight, but hoping that if I lose a lot of weight that I won't lose any of the boobs. Bring it on, boobie fairy!!

[Natalie]

Tis true. I don't think there are many women that truly love everything about themselves. I want bigger boobs than I have and will have them in about 9 months.

[Juliett]

Mine are big enough to get in the way and be annoying. Beyond that, I don't give them much thought as they are just part of my body.

[V M]

I was pretty excited and happy with my results within the first year     Now after 5 years they are pretty well developed and I am still very happy, but having boobs has become just part of daily life

[Michelle G]

I love my boobs but wouldn't mind at all if they were just a little bit bigger

  The one thing I really like is picking out which cute bra to wear for the day and thanks to my wonderful spouse whose fashion sense is fantastic I have some nice matching bra/panty sets, bralettes, cami's and cute tops.
  Anymore it just feels awkward to go braless and when I do she usually says "aren't you going to cover those things up" lol

[bv5913]

I love my breasts. I am a B cup and my favorite bras are like double pushup bras. Really enjoy having breasts. And I know they will get bigger, so I have something to look  forward to.  Problem is, right is a large B cup, and left is a small B cup. But I can live with that.