Hello,
it seems to me that there is a complete lack of information regarding why do we need to dilate long after everything has healed. Of course, I'm not trying to dispute fact; the reason, however, is not usually given. But perhaps somebody heard something more trustworthy or did their own research...
Well, it is also often said (theory 1

): "Body treats the neovagina as a wound and tries to close it." I doubt that, long after everything has healed. Moreover, sigmoid neovaginas have a far lower tendency to close up than skin-lined neovaginas.
That brings up the fact that it could be the property of skin as opposed to other tisues. Theory 2: Skin tends to grow or shrink to remain taut a bit (as when gaining or losing weight significantly). In the neovagina, the skin is in fact slack. So it tries get taut again by shrinking, but since nothing resists it except dilation (I think the neovagina is not anchored to anything in the body, isn't it?), it would continue to shrink. This would in my opinion suggest that older people need less dilation than younger, since the skin's ability to adapt gets limited with age. Do you think so?
Regarding theory 2, I also wondered whether the shrinking couldn't be stopped or slowed by something that medicine already knows. For example, burn victims often have problems with the new skin/graft getting tighter and tighter. Perhaps there is some at least partial treatment known among burn doctors but not among srs doctors? Anybody?
And regarding the question whether the neovagina is anchored to something in the body: In case the neovagina is a skin graft (like Suporn) as opposed to a vascularized skin flap, the graft needs to be pushed onto some other tissue to which it will attach ("take") and blood capillaries will grow into the graft from the host tissue. Then the neovagina will surely be attached to something! In theory, this attachement could after healing resist the tendency for shrinking by keeping the neovagina taut. That would imply that people with skin-graft neovaginas (Suporn) would need less dilation long term (despite needing more in short term). Do you think that's true?
It would be also interesting to know long-term dilation requirements from MRKH patients, since their neovaginas are lined with all sorts of tissue - the methods are much more varied than in MtF vaginoplasty.
Do you have your own theory? I'm eager to hear it