I was on my way back from the city today, where I had been attending the support group, en femme of course. My wife needed some groceries, so I stopped in a town I normally pass by on the highway. I went into the supermarket and rounded up the items she needed. There were a normal number of people in the store, and some of them I had to pass by several times as I went back and forth looking for the items. Absolutely no one in the store noticed me!
I may not have achieved invisibility, but it seems that I have achieved unremarkability. That is a big win! I know I do not pass well enough to go stealth. If people were to notice me, they might think, "That woman might be trans." But at least they are not thinking, "That man is wearing a skirt," and they mostly do not notice me at all. I am just another customer. Yay!