Going to echo what Ademie said.
When I started my process I assumed immediately that my love life would be dead for a very long time, if not forever. Prepared myself for that, planned my single forever life, and all of that. Meanwhile, my friends started dating, and I'd get a pang anytime I heard stories about marriage or families or kids. Not to mention seeing co-workers talking about weddings and the such ... my god, it gave me such longing.
But still, I put it out of my mind. I was going to be ok with being single, and would move forward on my own no matter what, so I did that. Worst-case scenario, I'd be cool with being a cat lady.
Then suddenly some guy approaches me and we hit it off, and I immediately tell him I can't be with him ever and about my whole situation. He's cool with it anyway and keeps talking to me. We become quick friends, and even with all things considered he was talking to me as much as possible ... and even with my warning, I failed and fell for him and then one day he asked me out.
You never know what could happen, and when you least expect it someone will just materialize somehow. Those things you see can definitely be for you too. Never feel like you won't be worth spoiling, because I'm sure someone will love to do that and proposals and the whole deal. You're as entitled as any other woman to dream of that and have it happen to you, it's just a matter of the right guy coming along when the time is right.
