i contacted the closest place i could (4 hours away), which was a gender health center and i am talking to a counselor from there once a month via skype, and they also have a hormone clinic there, but the counselor wants me to have my grandpa paid off before they will let me go to the hormone clinic... i guess being honest to them about things going on is a good and bad thing as well. if id kept my mouth shut i could have been on them already but. could have been shooting myself in the foot.
right now. if i get a job by the end of the year, assuming an extra 16-24 hours/wk. combined with my tax return, i should have my grandpa paid off in about 3-4 months. then a little extra in savings as padding in case of an emergency. was figuring beginning of june. but might be sooner if i get a 2nd job sooner. my goal is to have ~1k usd in savings to drop on electrolysis towards the beginning of going on hrt.
i look good on paper. and get quite a few interviews. and i do ok at the interview. (i had my current job[3 job offers] within 72 hours of getting into town and putting in applications) but. no one is biting the hook, for a second job.