2014:
~discovered why i have been so depressed for a majority of my life.
~am making progress despite setbacks
~started therapy
~started working on my financial plan and general outline for my transition
~came out to closest online friends
~came out to most of my family and either have their support, or acceptance, or both. (mom, stepdad, sister, and uncle.) (yet to tell grandparents ~omg s*** storm incoming~)
~read every post, on 4 different trans* related support/duscussion sites
~figured out who my real friends are... and arent (the person i was planning on coming out to first at work, discovered is extremely trans/homo phobic, and extreme gossiper. turned on me and is stirring up things at work... so glad i am not telling her)
~figured out who i actually will come out to first at work.
~using one-touch electrolysis on body hairs in various regions. becoming quite proficient with it. almost 250 hours over the last 2 months. (cleared an area ~ 4-5 square inches and growing, and can maintain it clear in about 6-7 hours a week now, alot of hairs that still come in are blonde) will be up to ~400 hours by end of year.
2014 setbacks
~prior to my realization and coming out to, and accepting myself. had my car accident that put me 6$k usd into debt, not counting vehicle expences and general bills and involved knee surgery.
2015:
~get grandpa paid off and remove the last of my debt by march.
~come out to best friend/roommate before he leaves for bootcamp in march.
~start hrt by june.
~start professional electrolysis on beard when i start hrt.
~come out at work.
~when i can semi-reliably pass, get a transfer from work, and move. towards end of year, or at the beginning of next year.
~make some good, reliable friends.
~get name change.
ongoing
~maintaining, and reviewing my financial and general plan.
~one-touch electrolysis. increase cleared area.
ummm.
