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How do you tell a girl that you would never intentionally hurt her??

Started by Brandon, December 01, 2014, 04:48:18 PM

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CursedFireDean

Quote from: Brandon on December 02, 2014, 04:31:35 PM
Well this is what I am gonna say, I just wanna say that I still feel really horrible and like ->-bleeped-<- , I had no I dea how much this affected you, know that I actually thought about it I competely understand why you were upset an needed space,  And I am deeply sorry, just wanna reasure you that as crazy as it may seems I do really love you, you mean the absolute world to me and that I'd never ever intentionally hurt you so don't think for one second that I am that guy because I am not.
Sounds good man.





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fitzyfoop

0_0 someone take away my Master Grammarian status away I said "their" instead of "there"
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Brandon

Quote from: fitzyfoop on December 02, 2014, 05:09:58 PM
0_0 someone take away my Master Grammarian status away I said "their" instead of "there"

Lol haha its ok I do that sometimes to.
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KamTheMan

Quote from: fitzyfoop on December 02, 2014, 05:09:58 PM
0_0 someone take away my Master Grammarian status away I said "their" instead of "there"

I mean if you really want to get into it, you said "away" twice in that sentence, which is another grammatical error. I don't care. But you seem to. ;)


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strapping_young_lad

Quote from: Brandon on December 02, 2014, 04:31:35 PM
Well this is what I am gonna say, I just wanna say that I still feel really horrible and like ->-bleeped-<- , I had no I dea how much this affected you, know that I actually thought about it I competely understand why you were upset an needed space,  And I am deeply sorry, just wanna reasure you that as crazy as it may seems I do really love you, you mean the absolute world to me and that I'd never ever intentionally hurt you so don't think for one second that I am that guy because I am not.

That's really nice and straight to the point! What was her reaction?
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ReubenIsTheName

Quote from: Brandon on December 01, 2014, 04:48:18 PM
How do you tell a girl this I just wanna reassure the girl that I am practically in love with that I'd never intentionally hurt her like how do I say it? :-\

Whenever that comes up in a conversation I have with a girl/guy that I'm romantically involved with, I tell them "I would punch a wall and hurt myself before I hurt you, if I ever got that mad."  I was raised in an abusive household (me and my mom have experienced it for the past 18 years), and just recently escaped from him (my father), and are living happily on our own.  I would NEVER put my hands on a woman, or man, for that matter, in the way he has with us.  I refuse to be like him.  I do not believe in abuse in any way, shape, or form, and abuse comes in more than just physical violence.  Tell her something like that.  My "I would hurt myself before I hurt you" seems to usually work well.

Hope this helps!

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Brandon

Quote from: strapping_young_lad on December 03, 2014, 06:06:42 AM
That's really nice and straight to the point! What was her reaction?

I missed a day of school because I had a really bad head ace I'm gonna do it tomorrow and let you guys know her reaction tomorrow after school.
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Gothic Dandy

Quote from: Brandon on December 01, 2014, 11:16:54 PM
Well I mean it wouldn't hurt to try with some people it helps to know if it was intetional or not I just wanna reasure her tbh.

Oh yes of course, I just meant that that's what my train of thought would be and that's how I would handle the situation. I don't feel comfortable just asking for forgiveness, I feel like I have to earn it. And I guess I extend that to others who have hurt me as well. They have to earn my trust back.

I hope it goes well!
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Brandon

Guys it went well she even gave me a hug after, she also liked the box of chocolates I bought her ;D
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CursedFireDean

Quote from: Brandon on December 05, 2014, 04:21:26 PM
Guys it went well she even gave me a hug after, she also liked the box of chocolates I bought her ;D
Good to hear man! Glad we could help you  :)





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