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[bv5913]

A woman at work everyday tells me  that I will never be a woman because I can't have kids or periods.
And reminds of my birth name and that I was born a male.
Most of the time I ignore her. But sometimes I just say I have 2 kids, proberbly a couple more I don't know about. And thankfully I can't have periods. Otherwise each month I would grumpy like my ex wife. But the other 2 remarks I cannot answer to shut her up.
Naturally I could throw the rule book at her and get her fired. But I don't want to alienate me from my other colleagues.
Anybody got a good comeback to shut her up.

[JustASeq]

A woman at work everyday tells me  that I will never be a woman because I can't have kids or periods.
And reminds of my birth name and that I was born a male.
Most of the time I ignore her. But sometimes I just say I have 2 kids, proberbly a couple more I don't know about. And thankfully I can't have periods. Otherwise each month I would grumpy like my ex wife. But the other 2 remarks I cannot answer to shut her up.
Naturally I could throw the rule book at her and get her fired. But I don't want to alienate me from my other colleagues.
Anybody got a good comeback to shut her up.

She sucks! Throw the book at her, she doesn't deserve a job.

[suzifrommd]

A woman at work everyday tells me  that I will never be a woman because I can't have kids or periods.
...
Anybody got a good comeback to shut her up.

Let me get this straight: Any woman who has a hysterectomy is no longer a woman?

What is she, then?

[PinkCloud]

A woman at work everyday tells me  that I will never be a woman because I can't have kids or periods.
And reminds of my birth name and that I was born a male.
Anybody got a good comeback to shut her up.

She probably also thinks she owns the keys to the Universe, or what? You are probably more female than she is, and she's jealous about it. Just say: your mother is a man, look in the mirror you ugly cow. etcetera. I wish she would try that stuff on me, she wouldn't last one insult. It's not okay, you need to step up and tell her.

By the way, no-one is born a MALE. We were born as a human baby, then grew into a boy.

[Alexis2107]

Hate to say it but JustASeq is right, she needs to be catapulted to the sea. 

[JustASeq]

Hate to say it but JustASeq is right, she needs to be catapulted to the sea.

I think you misspelled Sun

[Alexis2107]

I think you misspelled Sun

haha yeah sun works too xD

[SonadoraXVX]

Throw the book at her, she went out of bounds by shooting her uneducated mouth at you. She is playing dirty aka  psychological guerilla warfare. If you say I dont to talk to you and she still comes at YOU repeatedly, give her both legal barrels. But if you associate with her or talk to her outside of your work duties, your just at fault.

[Lostkitten]

A name is just a name. Or does she think animals in the wild (nameless) are also genderless?

Not sure about you, but not everyone automatically wants kids, just because they can. I usually respond that I have seen too many alien movies to see something kicking from inside of me as a beautiful thing.

Does she have kids? Karma is a bitch and she should watch her words before she figures out she can't get kids, or gets a handicapped one. Nothing against that but someone talking like her seems like she would find that a bigger deal than usual.

And last.. she aims on hurting you, so don't feel bad to do the same in return. Look at her and figure out her masculine traits, or insecurities (everyone has those especially those who act like a bitch to others). As example (I don't know her) her hands. I would just say something like; You must be really hurting about something. Does it bother you that a biological born male like me has more feminine hands than a biological born female like you? First work on your own insecurities before you find the need to point out the ones of others.

[bv5913]

Thanks Gals.
I don't häng out with her after work. It is just at work she says crap to me. And usually I have a remark to say back to shut people up. But now I have a few to say back to her.
Yes I could get her fired, but I don't want her colleagues sticking up for her and then making my life hell. I just want a peacefull life. I just thought of one.  She's just jealous cause I have bigger tits than her.

[Ms Grace]

Naturally I could throw the rule book at her and get her fired...

Yes you can and you should. If management is supportive of you you should talk to HR, she is bullying you and needs to be reprimanded at the very least.

Workshopped comebacks never work anyway (lest we forget that episode of Seinfeld with George's failed attempt at a witty riposte.)

[awilliams1701]

My mom can no longer have kids and (I'm assuming) she no longer has her period. Shes just as much of a women.
Also some people are born XY with a vagina. Its rare but not that unheard of. Most don't even know about it until they attempt to find out while they are sterile.
Some poeple are born XX with a penis. This is super rare, but it happens.
Some people are born with both.
SRS can fix having the wrong genitals.
So in summery if fertility is the requirement for being a woman, then all older women aren't actually women. If its about genetics then there are people out there that aren't really the gender they think they are and don't even know it. If its about body parts, there is SRS, but why would a single surgery change your gender overnight? No all these arguments are flawed.

[LauraSpiral]

You should tell her, that at one point, everyone in the womb was literally, just an anus. Then make sure she realizes she never evolved past that.

[awilliams1701]

Actually everyone has been female at some point. We start out as female and then at a certain point in the process the Y chromosome tells the body to destroy the female components to make room for male components. In a way all males are transgender.

[ImagineKate]

Ask yourself. If she said to one of your black coworkers, "you'll never be a real person. This country was founded by white people for white people. You were imported as farm equipment, and you are really 3/5 of a person." Would you feel sorry for her and just deal with it? Absolutely not!

We get a sit down with the lawyers every so often to remind us of the non discrimination policy. We get talks on appropriate conduct in person and on places like social media. Respecting others is the heart of it, whether or not there is a law or rule in place. We should all strive to create a comfortable work environment. She clearly is not.

I would run to HR and your manager in a heartbeat. She is creating an extremely hostile work environment and I wouldn't want to work with her.

[Lostkitten]

record her saying that crap.
post it on YouTube with her home address publicized

this was what happened to the owner of a tourist ripoff shop here in my country. a lot of people sent unpaid pizzas and deliveries to his home too. he's probably been blacklisted for every fast food delivery chain in town

when I'm pissed, I'm really pissed.

Wouldn't take it to that extreme, really. How much better are you if a person makes you feel like crap, to make them feel like crap on the internet which spreads like a maniac if you are (un)lucky?

[ImagineKate]

Besides, recording may be against the law in some states.

[sam79]

So, you have the grounds and means and take action but would rather not.

      

I'm sure you're no stranger to this, but welcome to the bitchy world of women. So what is your goal here? To tire her out of insults? To find her sore spots and poke her back? Or to even gain some respect from her?

[Devlyn]

A name is just a name. Or does she think animals in the wild (nameless) are also genderless?

Not sure about you, but not everyone automatically wants kids, just because they can. I usually respond that I have seen too many alien movies to see something kicking from inside of me as a beautiful thing.

Does she have kids? Karma is a bitch and she should watch her words before she figures out she can't get kids, or gets a handicapped one. Nothing against that but someone talking like her seems like she would find that a bigger deal than usual.

And last.. she aims on hurting you, so don't feel bad to do the same in return. Look at her and figure out her masculine traits, or insecurities (everyone has those especially those who act like a bitch to others). As example (I don't know her) her hands. I would just say something like; You must be really hurting about something. Does it bother you that a biological born male like me has more feminine hands than a biological born female like you? First work on your own insecurities before you find the need to point out the ones of others.

That is disgusting. Handicapped children aren't handed out like punishment. I'd rather have a handicapped child that knows how to show love than someone who hates on handicapped children.

[TSJasmine]

Throw a bible at her head & say "LOVE THY NEIGHBOR"