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Started by Ptero, December 27, 2014, 09:25:18 AM

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Ptero

I'm not sure it's the right place to post this but as it's about dressing...

These days I'm thinking a lot about buying a binder. I found one on the internet but didn't buy it yet. I'm not sure I will "dare" to wear it. Even if I have a very little chest (I don't even need a bra and never wear any), I can't bear it when I see the deformation of my t-shirt saying out loud "you have a feminine chest". But I don't know if people will notice if I bind it. And if they do, I don't know how they can react, if they will say something... It's pretty scary.

(perhaps it's important to say that I'm gender neutral. I don't want to pass as a boy. I just don't want to be systematically read as a girl and I need to lower my dysphoria)
[I'm French speaking so... sorry if I make mistakes in English !]
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