I don't pass at all as I'm only on HRT for 1 week now. I've been using the women's at work and everyone has gotten used to it. However when I went to Atlanta for my HRT appointment, I needed to use the restroom in Wendy's on the way back. I used the women's and was concerned about which room to use and if I could get attacked over it as both Georgia and Alabama aren't friendly to LGBT in general. Fortunately I live in a non southern pocket that doesn't seem to mind me presenting as Ashley 100% of the time. But the way I see it, I'm wearing dresses and skirts so I use the women's.