When to reshape eye brows.

[Vicky Mitchell]

Is it bad if I am presenting as male now but get my brows reshaped as a female now.  Would that be too much.   I already get them wax so they are clean most of the time. 


Vicky
MtF

[JLT1]

When ever you are comfortable doing it.  If you are presenting male and are accepted as male, the eyebrows won't make that much of a difference.  However, when trying to pass, if you are marginal, they do make a difference.

Hugs,

Jen

[Julia-Madrid]

Hey there Vicky

Reshaping your eyebrows is one of the most powerful and cheapest gender markers.  I don't know your situation, but if you are working on transitioning, or if you are in a pre-transition phase and soon to transition, then gradual shaping might be a good way for you and other people to gradually become accustomed to your changes.

On the other hand, if you really feel that totally reshaping them will be good for you, then go for it.  You may just have to deal with some pointed questions from friends, family or work colleagues. 

[Leila]

Is it bad if I am presenting as male now but get my brows reshaped as a female now.  Would that be too much.   I already get them wax so they are clean most of the time. 

Not at all. As unbelievable as it sounds, I am still presenting as male at work and over the course of about two years my brows have gone from hairy caterpillars, to neat metrosexual and finally to their present state of very apparently female. I haven't had anyone question their shape at work at all.

I started HRT over 14 months ago, so if anyone was going to say anything, I think eyebrows would be the last thing they would mention, with boobs being probably being the first (as I have C cups now).

Just pluck them gradually and to whatever width and style you are comfortable with.

A cautionary note: When I did pluck into a more fem shape, I noticed once the hairs were gone there was a nice light patch of skin that hadn't been previously tanned. So you may want to take that into consideration.

[Brenda E]

I was just about to post an eyebrow question, but this pretty much answered things for me too.  I hope the following sub-questions don't derail the thread...

How does one actually shape eyebrows?  Is it something that can be done gradually?  Is it always waxing, plucking, or can electrolysis be used to make the results permanent (and painful just once)?

And my big question - how does eyebrow shaping affect the need for a brow lift?  With good shaping, is the lift almost unnecessary?

[Vicky Mitchell]

Yeah shape was next.  I have no real ideal on shape that I was going to have go in and ask for it.   If anyone has links or tips or how to shape and that would be great.


Vicky
MtF

[Leila]

I was just about to post an eyebrow question, but this pretty much answered things for me too.  I hope the following sub-questions don't derail the thread...

How does one actually shape eyebrows?  Is it something that can be done gradually?  Is it always waxing, plucking, or can electrolysis be used to make the results permanent (and painful just once)?

And my big question - how does eyebrow shaping affect the need for a brow lift?  With good shaping, is the lift almost unnecessary?

There are plenty of resources online regarding how to select an appropriate shape for your face type as well as tips on how to pluck. Any decent search engine can bring up a raft of links.

Depending on how much brow bossing, it is possible good considered plucking could defer the perceived imminent need to require a brow lift. Before I plucked mine, I figured I'd desperately need FFS to sort my brows out, but a combination of plucking and HRT opening out my eyes and redistributing fat on my face has meant that I can wait for a bit longer to see how things pan out. I may still want forehead contouring and with that have a brow lift included, but so far it's not looking too bad.

[Kristyn74]

I haven't done anything about mine but...wow...its going to be hard choosing a line to go by. The other thing is those really long ones I'm going to have to use a set of clippers,because some see 2 cm long!

[Eva Marie]

As my transition date was approaching and as I was going out a lot more en femme I began to gradually reduce & reshape my eyebrows by plucking. I thought I had them pretty thinned out, but as a part of my coming out I had them professionally waxed (ouch!) and they were even way thinner. Also, having that done really helped me to see the girl in the mirror - it is a very powerful feminizing change. If you are still presenting as male too much thinning & shaping will likely get you a lot of questions or weird looks.

[Sabrina]

When ever you feel comfortable. I'm afraid of waxing so I get my eyebrows threaded. Works great.

[ImagineKate]

I did gradual changes to change the spacing (I had a thick unibrow) then shaped them down. Then one day I just said, "screw it" and thinned them out, shaped them. My wife freaked out. She said it didn't look feminine but everyone else disagreed with her. I just re-did mine. I'm getting new glasses soon too, that should help a ton.

Coworkers and no one else that I haven't asked really haven't said anything. People are noticing the beard electrolysis more than anything else.

[Brenda E]

This afternoon, I almost handed in my "trans" membership card and decided to stay male.  After reading this thread and some answers people had given me in other threads about confidence, I decided to get my eyebrows done.  A change that I can't hide from public view, and a small but important step in the right direction towards gaining the courage to walk out of the house looking more feminine each and every day (or at least doing things to myself that force me to look more feminine in public whether I like it or not).  Plus when I wear makeup, my eyebrows are a dead giveaway and they needed tidying up.

Found a local threading joint - nice Indian lady inside who proceeded to lure me into a chair and then torture me with what looked like dental floss.  Tears streaming from my eyes, hands and forehead sweating from the repeated cycles of anticipation then agony, anticipation then agony.  I had bushy eyebrows beforehand, so I knew there was some work to be done.  But my god, that was painful - like up there with "first laser session on upper lip" painful; up there with "screw being trans" painful.  Took about twenty minutes from start to finish.  I had asked for something more feminine, and with the amount of huge rips of hair she took off again and again and again, I was expecting to be left with the world's thinnest eyebrows.

But no, I now have two neatly-trimmed and shaped androgynous eyebrows, a great first step towards gradually shaping them in a more and more feminine style.  The tatty outlines are now gone, the bushiness has been trimmed away, and I'm pretty pleased with the results.  And the first session is evidently the most painful, so next time should be far less miserable - although I do intend to ask the lady to make them a touch smaller each time I go.  Redness subsided within thirty minutes.  My eyes even look slightly more open now that the bottom of the eyebrow has been moved upwards by what must be no more than a millimeter or two.  Can't wait to see how this affects me when I put makeup on.

Rather pleased with the result, to be honest.  It's not a huge change, but it's certainly a change.  And nobody has commented on it either - yet...

Total cost: $15 ($10 for the service, and I threw in a $5 tip because she put up with more exclamations of "OH F**K!" than she's probably heard in her entire life.)

[ImagineKate]

My wife introduced me to threading. I haven't gotten mine done that way, as I pluck it myself with a tweezers. But I'm debating just letting it grow out and going to get it threaded. It does work for her though.

[BunnyBee]

There is a learning curve if you do them yourself.  Be prepared for a very bad first result!

[ImagineKate]

There is a learning curve if you do them yourself.  Be prepared for a very bad first result!

That I had! Thankfully I didn't over pluck... but I am going to get them professionally done sooner or later.

[Vicky Mitchell]

puts down the tweezers before i get in trouble.   Now where is yelp so i can find a good place to go.


Vicky
MtF

[ImagineKate]

I would say if you're DIY with the proper tools you'll be fine. You absolutely do need a 5x magnification mirror and a good set of tweezers. The cheap dollar store ones won't do. Revlon and name brands are good. Tweezerman is good too, probably the best there is.

[JLT1]

This afternoon, I almost handed in my "trans" membership card and decided to stay male.  After reading this thread and some answers people had given me in other threads about confidence, I decided to get my eyebrows done.  A change that I can't hide from public view, and a small but important step in the right direction towards gaining the courage to walk out of the house looking more feminine each and every day (or at least doing things to myself that force me to look more feminine in public whether I like it or not).  Plus when I wear makeup, my eyebrows are a dead giveaway and they needed tidying up.

Found a local threading joint - nice Indian lady inside who proceeded to lure me into a chair and then torture me with what looked like dental floss.  Tears streaming from my eyes, hands and forehead sweating from the repeated cycles of anticipation then agony, anticipation then agony.  I had bushy eyebrows beforehand, so I knew there was some work to be done.  But my god, that was painful - like up there with "first laser session on upper lip" painful; up there with "screw being trans" painful.  Took about twenty minutes from start to finish.  I had asked for something more feminine, and with the amount of huge rips of hair she took off again and again and again, I was expecting to be left with the world's thinnest eyebrows.

But no, I now have two neatly-trimmed and shaped androgynous eyebrows, a great first step towards gradually shaping them in a more and more feminine style.  The tatty outlines are now gone, the bushiness has been trimmed away, and I'm pretty pleased with the results.  And the first session is evidently the most painful, so next time should be far less miserable - although I do intend to ask the lady to make them a touch smaller each time I go.  Redness subsided within thirty minutes.  My eyes even look slightly more open now that the bottom of the eyebrow has been moved upwards by what must be no more than a millimeter or two.  Can't wait to see how this affects me when I put makeup on.

Rather pleased with the result, to be honest.  It's not a huge change, but it's certainly a change.  And nobody has commented on it either - yet...

Total cost: $15 ($10 for the service, and I threw in a $5 tip because she put up with more exclamations of "OH F**K!" than she's probably heard in her entire life.)

Yea!!!!  Congrads!

I use a pro every couple of months and then pull out hairs as they come in until I loose shape, which I do.  I have the 10X mirror but somehow, even starting with something that looks good, I cause problems.  So, it's very few weeks for me.

Hugs,

Jen

[BunnyBee]

If you think you might be overdoing it, you probably are, ..and if you think they look good, that doesn't mean more plucking will make them look more good.  Just two things to keep you safe lol.

And yeah tweezerman is rad.

[RavenMoon]

I present as male every day, and I get my brows done. It does make my face more feminine. But I'm not at the stage where anyone thinks I'm female. Not if they are looking at my face anyway. lol

I figure between growing my hair long, thinning my brows, dressing androgynously, and painting my nails, it's been changing my appearance gradually. So the people around me are getting used to it.

I have no plans on presenting as female until I can pull it off successfully. 


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