So, I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years. It's been about a month and a half though, and I've started looking to date again. Fired up OKCupid and.... now I have two beautiful women interested in me. That's both great and terrible, because, on the one hand, I'm not really one that this ever happens to; I've been in three relationships, two of which only lasted a couple months. I've never had more than one person into me at the same time. So this is a real boost of confidence.
But then there's the bad side of it: I have to choose. One is really sweet, mentally stable, (I have depression and anxiety; it's hard to date someone else with the same sort of disorders) and going to school to become a doctor. She's way out of my league.
The other has no job, no car, and matching mental disorders. That doesn't mix well with me. But we have SO MUCH in common. Way more than the other.
I could be shallow and just pick the most attractive one, but... they're both gorgeous. So even that doesn't work.
I think I'm set on the future doctor, though. She seems to be the better fit long-term, but still.
