I went to the local lgbt health center. I could find a counselor that excepts my insurance.
We had one session and she told me she would recommend me by next session and set an appointment for the doctor right after next session.
Less gatekeeper and more of a doorman.
Sliding scale on counseling. Think it cost 13 bucks. Doctor will be more because he actually takes my insurance.
Keep searching. Let Google be your friend.
Wherever you go, then there you are