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I Failed!!! (It's a good kind of fail) :)

Started by Emjay, January 31, 2015, 04:40:43 PM

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Emjay

Hi Everyone,

So last night we were out to dinner at a Japanese Steakhouse, one of those places where they cook your food in front of you.  We all ordered and the chef comes out to prepare our meal, as he's going around the table asking how we all would like our food cooked he's addressing everyone as "sir" or "ma'am" and I'm thinking "Great....  here we go, let's just get it over with..." as I wasn't dressed or made up or anything. 

So he gets around to me, asks about my meal and.......  A slight pause from him, then NO pronouns at all!  I was thinking ok, that's odd since he addressed everyone else with one...  The few other times he addressed me in particular gave me the same result: no pronouns at all!  (Getting hopeful at this point!)

Then it happened...  He went to serve something onto my plate.  I said "Thank you!"  He said:  "You're welcome Ma'am!"  ;D ;D ;D  Ok, sure it was a dimly lit restaurant but I'll take it.  Especially since I wasn't really even trying at the time!

January 30, 2015....  The day I got my first confirmed male fail!!!

I will NEVER forget this, I'm still walking on clouds :)




Start therapy:                            Late 2013
Start HRT:                                 April, 2014
Out everywhere and full time:      November 19, 2015
Name change (official):                            February 1, 2016
I'm a Mommy! (Again) :                             January 31, 2017
GCS consultation:                        February 17, 2017
GCS, Dr. Gallagher (Indianapolis, IN)  February 13, 2018
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Ptero

[I'm French speaking so... sorry if I make mistakes in English !]
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stephaniec

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BreezyB

Congratulations, it's certainly a great feeling isn't it. And you've obviously reached that point where you may never be able to pull of presenting as male again... Yay!!!
"I don't care if the world knows what my secrets are" - Mary Lambert



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Sabrina

- Sabrina

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katrinaw

Congrats...
Love Tepenyaki too, what a lovely way to get recognised for who you are  :-*  :-*  :-*

L Katy
Long term MTF in transition... HRT since ~ 2003...
Journey recommenced Sept 2015  :eusa_clap:... planning FT 2016  :eusa_pray:

Randomly changing 'Katy PIC's'

Live life, embrace life and love life xxx
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