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My GRS Experience with Dr. Marcie Bowers

Started by ForeverGiselle, February 02, 2015, 11:11:31 PM

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ForeverGiselle

Hi ladies,

In case anyone is interested in having surgery with Dr. Bowers, I thought I share my experience with her.  I wanted to create a thread so I can share my thoughts and opinions with you. 

I landed at San Francisco International Airport on Sunday February 1st.  Dr. Bowers office arrange a free limo service for me to get to my hotel which I thought was nice. Check into my hotel and walk around to see the city. I stayed at John Howard Express Inn in San Mateo. I guess you get what you pay for which is my experience with this hotel. I chose it because it was fairly inexpensive but it was meh. Only staying here two nights anyway.  I came alone and thought I would be fine but boy, I was wrong. I had a melt down and cried my eyes out in the hotel. I don't know. I just felt so alone and felt like I didn't know what I was doing anymore. I was happy but nervous and scared and afterward, felt lonely. It was tough but I got through it. 

This morning, I went for my consultation with Dr. Bowers.  My appointment was at 9:00am but the office didn't even open until 9:15 since the front desk lady was running late. I didn't complain, it didn't matter to me. I didn't see Dr. Bowers until 9:40ish because she was also running late...it was slightly weird for me but I was just so excited to meet her that I didn't complain or cared.  She was a nice lady just as I expected her to be. She examined me and answer my questions thoroughly. After examination, she told me that she doesn't expect any complication and that I will be in good hand.

After the appointment, I went to the hospital for registration and blood-work. Boy, the hospital was busy and I waited for a while. I think I spent 3 hours there (is this normal for a hospital?).  Went to the pharmacy afterward and came back to my hotel where I drank the bowel prep.  By the way, that stuff is disgusting and I wanted to puke. I been on a liquid diet today per their instruction. I love food so this is very frustrating and hard for me but I think I'll live!  My surgery is tomorrow at 7:30am so I got to be at the hospital by 6.  Compare to yesterday, today I am pretty calm and collected. Can't wait.

I will update everyone after the surgery on how I am doing.  I am so excited because I have been waiting for this moment since forever. Time for bed! :)
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mrs izzy

I wish you the best and speedy recovery.

Vicki is also a Dr. Bowers alumni so nice to have another share there experiences.

Hugs
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GorJess

Thank you so much for creating this thread, as I have my SRS with her in May. I've been looking for recent experiences for her all over the web, to help me best prepare.

Also, best of luck, and as Izzy said, a speedy recovery. Be well.
You are here in order to enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are here to enrich the world. -Woodrow Wilson





With Dr. Marci Bowers in San Mateo
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Alana_Jane

At this point I wish you a speedy recovery Giselle.

-Alana
Alana - Beautiful/Serene/Awakening
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ForeverGiselle

Hello ladies. The good thing is that I am still alive LOL. 

It's time for some update. I arrived at the hospital at 6am as I was advised. Checked in and went to the pre-surgery center.  Here, I sign in and waited for a nurse to get me. I was pretty nervous but also excited at this point.  There was only like 2 people ahead of me. The male nurse arrived and asked me if I was here for surgery. I said yes. He looked at me and said "well mam, you need to sign in. It said so right here.".  I was like, "um, yeah I sign in already".  He glanced at the sign up sheet and said "oh, follow me please".  I followed him to room 1 where he asked me some general health questions like when the last time I ate/drink blah blah blah. He gave me a gown to change into and said to wait. 

I changed into my gown. Another nurse came and ask more health related question followed by the anesthesiologist who pre me for IV, etc. I have to say I was pretty calm.  Everything was going to plan. I sent text messages to my friends that I would see them on the flipside. Around 7:30am, they came and took me to another room. A couple nurses were there and moved me to another table. I ask the nurses if there is where they put me to sleep.  They said "no" and that was the last thing I remember. 

I woke up in the recovery room asking a nearby nurse if it was done. She said yes and I fell back to sleep. I woke up again (didn't know what time it was) in my room.  I felt super tucked in and felt like I need to use the restroom.  The nurse said everything went fine and it was a success and that there wasn't any complication.  I told the nurse I really had to go use the restroom and she gave me some more drugs that put me to sleep. 

I woke up later (still Tuesday) and just feeling really tucked in.  It wasn't painful but more uncomfortable.  It was just a weird experience. I just didn't feel like eating even though the nurse told me to order dinner.  Later the night, it was difficult for me to sleep and I order more pain meds from the nurse.

Wednesday was slightly better but still uncomfortable. just a lot of sleeping and pain control. The catheters make me feel very weird and the packing in the vagina makes me feel like I constantly have to go. It was kinda annoying to be honest. 

Thursday was more of the same. They had me walked sometime in the afternoon.  I felt very dizzy and light headache.  They remove the dressing but I bleed after walking so they put some dressing back which was very uncomfortable. 

Friday, I was discharged. I am staying at StayBridge and now have to wait until Monday until Dr. Bowers will remove the packing inside the vagina and the catheters.  I don't know about the other ladies, but I feel like this is the worst part.  I can't walk normally and can't stand very long. The catheter and packing makes things very uncomfortable.  The pain is tolerable but it's just uncomfortable overall.  It is Saturday right now and I can't believe I have to spend two more night before they are removed.

More to come! :)
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Eveline

Hang in there honey!

Are you by yourself, or do you have someone staying with you?
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ForeverGiselle

Quote from: newgrrrl on February 07, 2015, 04:49:51 PM
Hang in there honey!

Are you by yourself, or do you have someone staying with you?

Thanks! I'm trying my best!  I am here by myself. :)
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Allie

Congratulations! You are such an inspiration, I hope the healing goes quickly :)
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Beth Andrea

Congratulations! Only two more days!

How long will you be there altogether?
...I think for most of us it is a futile effort to try and put this genie back in the bottle once she has tasted freedom...

--read in a Tessa James post 1/16/2017
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ForeverGiselle

Thank you Allie.

Beth Andrea, I will be here until Friday the 13th in San Francisco. I know, I could have pick a better date but I'm going to ignore the superstition of Friday the 13th lol.
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Allie

I have my date with Marci for Oct 14, hoping that I am able to move my date up due to another cancellation.

How are you feeling?
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ImagineKate

Giselle,

Good luck to you and speedy recovery hon.
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beccacurls

Congrats Giselle! Wishing you a speedy recovery.

Please continue to update this thread with your experience.
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Jill F

Congrats, and I hope your recovery is swift.   Please continue to keep us posted-  Dr. Bowers is the surgeon I am currently leaning toward and I'd love to have some of my "fear of the unknown" squashed here.
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ImagineKate

Me too. It's either between her, brassard or even suporn for me. But, SRS is 2 years away for me at least and anything can change between now and then.
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ForeverGiselle

Thanks everyone for your support. 

Well, it is Sunday. One more day until the packing and the catheters are removed. I am curious how everyone who had SRS dealt with the uncomfortableness of having the packing and catheters inside you. I had it in me since Friday and I cannot stress it enough of how much I hate the feeling. It is a horrible feeling at least for me and sometime I have to take some pain medicine just to bear with it.  Perhaps my pain tolerance isn't as high as some individuals.  Today is another depressing day for me. I feel trap in my hotel and feel like it's difficult to move around.  Furthermore, I discover an infection on my lower thigh. There appear to be some rashes there that is creating some nasty little white thingys that can pop if you squish it. I know, disgusting. I'm hoping to have Dr. Bowers look at it tomorrow when I see her.  I also woke up with a style on my right eye.  Yep, this is a horrible day lol.

This weekend, I also got a little depress.  I don't know why. Maybe it's because I'm here alone or due to the uncomfortableness of the packing but I never felt so alone and miserable.  I'm trying my best to keep my chin up but it's really difficult.  My one advice for any ladies thinking about the surgery is that if you can, bring someone with you! I think that will help tremendously! Don't be like me and come alone lol. I couldn't bring anyone due to unfortunate circumstances but if you can, please bring someone with you. 

As far as Dr. Bower goes, I want to be honest with everyone. She's a very nice lady and will answer all your questions.  However, be aware that she is also very busy and because of this, your time with her is very limited. I don't know if this is the same with other surgeons. I saw Dr. Bowers at my pre-op appointment, she was very straight to the point and bam, the next thing you know, your appointment is done. I saw her once for less than 5 minutes before the surgery and she came and check up on me twice (both less than a couple minute) after the surgery.  My interaction with her was very limited as she seems to always be on the go.

The nurses she work with at the Mills Peninsula Hospital are nice but depends on who you get. I got a nurse name Viet and Maly who were the nicest nurse ever. They checked up on me, chatted with me, and just make me feel very very comfortable.  I had one nurse, Irine, who is not very good.  She's nice but she barely check up on you and you have to call for her several times because once she disappear, she doesn't come back until you literally need something.  Not very attentive.  I had a good experiences with nurses overall but you may get one or few that may be a little more on the difficult side.

That's all my update for today. Let me know if there is any specific question you have for me and I'll do my best to answer it.  :)

Thanks everyone.
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beccacurls

Hang in there. It is almost over. :)

I'd imagine now would be a good time to catch up on your tv shows? That should make you feel less isolated. No?
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Allie

Giselle if it means anything I wish I was  recovering in the bed next to yours. I am so awed by your strength and courage to go at this alone. My surgery is months away and I'm already starting to get scared.  Stay strong sister!!!
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Alana_Jane

Giselle, please stay strong.  Feeling down and a little sad after is not that unusual.  If you feel like having a cry, let it out.  Probably doesn't help that it's been raining this weekend. 
Hugs,

-Alana
Alana - Beautiful/Serene/Awakening
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Jaz650

Hey Giselle, I live here in San Mateo if you want someone to visit you. :)


You must be true to yourself, in order to be true to God! - Jaz
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